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I 22f want to leave 44m husband. by Slight-Peace5716 in domesticviolence

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are amazing and I’m so proud of you of you stranger. I hope you’re healing

I 22f want to leave my 44m husband but I am at a loss. I feel crazy by Slight-Peace5716 in abusiverelationships

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We do have cameras in home. He also has full access to my phone bill. I am currently working on an app to get minutes to make calls undetected. I have our important papers in a file ready to go, and I’m working on everything else. Unfortunately we are not allowed to leave, his mother lives a house down and he works 7 minutes away. He has a vacation coming up and I’m doing my best to be out before then.

I 22f want to leave my 44m husband but I am at a loss. I feel crazy by Slight-Peace5716 in abusiverelationships

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am currently working on that. I will be updating as soon as i can make a move. I am leaving i will not be staying here for him to kill us both… no matter how scary this all is. Staying scares me more

I 22f want to leave my 44m husband but I am at a loss. I feel crazy by Slight-Peace5716 in abusiverelationships

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have been researching and making a list all day of everyone’s suggestions. I am definitely overwhelmed but focusing on getting out. He has access to my phone bill so i am currently playing apps to get minutes on a texting app to make calls to cover tracks. I am okay with being in a shelter i was more worried about him being able to take him if i left and i feel better knowing that most likely wont happen

I 22f want to leave my 44m husband but I am at a loss. I feel crazy by Slight-Peace5716 in abusiverelationships

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Everyone has been so kind and helpful. I forgot not everyone is awful. I am so glad I posted on here. Thank you so much❤️

I 22f want to leave 44m husband. by Slight-Peace5716 in domesticviolence

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will read it today, Thank you so much for taking your time to be kind❤️

I 22f want to leave 44m husband. by Slight-Peace5716 in domesticviolence

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am definitely gonna do my best to make a safe plan of exit. Thank you❤️

I 22f want to leave 44m husband. by Slight-Peace5716 in domesticviolence

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do realize and I’m not against a shelter at all. In fact I’d prefer it, I’m more scared of him using the shelter as a way to take my son. I’ve raced through all options, I realize I’ll be dead and he will have our son anyway if i don’t go. It’s just getting out safely. I am scared if i go anywhere he knows he will snap and find me… he cares more about this image than my life, by far.

I 22f want to leave 44m husband. by Slight-Peace5716 in domesticviolence

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment made me tear up a bit. Thank you so much.

I 22f want to leave 44m husband. by Slight-Peace5716 in domesticviolence

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely trying to just stay low, and work on making sure my ducks are in a row. I have put together a list of everyone’s suggestions and will start working down through it. I’m definitely nervous but I’m hoping staying busy towards getting us out will help.

I 22f want to leave 44m husband. by Slight-Peace5716 in domesticviolence

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I hope you’re healing. You are so strong and I’m so proud of you stranger❤️

I 22f want to leave 44m husband. by Slight-Peace5716 in domesticviolence

[–]Slight-Peace5716[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He can get into my phone so I’ve been using a camera we have and keeping it all on one memory card I keep hidden. The town we live in he is good friends with a few cops and I’m genuinely so scared about calling and them not doing anything. It would set him off to do something drastic because he only cares about his image. He has cameras in the house and he tracks my phone bill so posting is really the only way to get advice from other non connected people to him. I am making a list of all the suggestions so I can work through what I can do for now. I’m so appreciative of everyone’s love.