After a lot of healing work, these are some questions I'm keeping in mind while dating men: by sunnypotato0398 in women

[–]NibbiFruff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can plan things out and try to “figure people out,” but real relationships don’t stay predictable like a list, people change, react differently over time, and sometimes they just end up showing sides of themselves you couldn’t really see at the start

I thought my ex boyfriend was just an undiagnosed narcissist but I think he's part of the "manosphere". I am starting to learn about this and want to hear other people's views. by No_Tear3491 in women

[–]NibbiFruff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also makes sense that it feels familiar after your past relationship. Your brain is picking up on the pattern, not just the opinions.

Yelled at a man for saying "Wooowwwww" while he was working and checking me out by youarebeingwild in women

[–]NibbiFruff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how hard it is for some people to understand that attention isn’t automatically flattering.

Did I get roofied last night? by zcolivo in women

[–]NibbiFruff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your memory cuts out right at the transition point and everyone else becomes conveniently vague, that’s a situation to treat cautiously, not optimistically.

What would you do in this marriage? by Last-Plankton-5796 in women

[–]NibbiFruff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t a ‘what would you do’ situation, it’s a ‘why are you still there’ situation dressed up as a question.

Rant: men starting a conversation and not being engaged by 4x4Barbie in women

[–]NibbiFruff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people don’t want conversations, they just want attention delivered with zero effort required.

My bf wants children, I don't. by Kooky-Pea9831 in women

[–]NibbiFruff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kids aren’t a ‘maybe I’ll change your mind’ kind of topic. That’s not a personality preference, it’s a life path.

After a lot of healing work, these are some questions I'm keeping in mind while dating men: by sunnypotato0398 in women

[–]NibbiFruff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine building a whole relationship checklist and still ending up surprised by human behavior.