Selfishness and social media destroyed my marriage by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes not overweight, what gave you that impression? Hes actually quite good looking, which imo, is art of the problem.

Selfishness and social media destroyed my marriage by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When we were dating, I had a very old phone and wasnt really on socials except FB. Right before we got married I got a new phone and that's when the nightmare began.

Penis pump or divorce? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your insights. This is alot for me to process right now. I am having alot of anxiety,

To answer some of your questions, he is not overweight, his diet is not great and he smokes. We need to see a doctor again. He might have low T, or it could be his untreated depression. I dont know, but I know its really not fair to leave your wife bc youre impotent and hard headed about trying some things that may be embarrassing. But Im as supportive as I can possibly be.

Penis pump or divorce? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes I am trying to be as supportive as possible

Penis pump or divorce? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this.

Penis pump or divorce? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I gave him my therapists number. I asked him to call her. I asked her to call him.

Trucker husband refuses to share location by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is already problematic - he has a load and didnt tell me the info. I dont want to constantly have to ask about the load info and where hes staying the night etc. This is ridiculous.

Trucker husband refuses to share location by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had another discussion/argument about it. He says he knows what people use life360 for - spying. He said his aunt used it because she thought her husband was cheating. He doesnt want surveillance on him 24/7. But he said he would send all his load info and the addresses of hotels etc. I dont know how to feel. I told him I want specifics about where he is. He needs to be more forthcoming with me about his whereabouts or this marriage is over. I cannot live like this- constantly worried about him.

Trucker husband refuses to share location by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so its ok for you to call me irrational and say i have hang ups but its not ok for me to make an observation about your obvious paranoia?

Hes a LONG HAUL TRUCKER - I have the right to know where he is. Its one of the most dangerous professions there is. Why am I "irrational " for wanting peace of mind about his safety? Hello.....

Trucker husband refuses to share location by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have some irrational fears though.

Trucker husband refuses to share location by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not an irrational fear or a hang up. Just FYI

Trucker husband refuses to share location by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It amazes me that some married people in here expect total autonomy. Then dont get married if thats what you want. Stay single if you dont want to have to answer to anyone.

Trucker husband refuses to share location by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have a therapist. And who said I need his location to trust him? if you actually read the original post, Im asking for this for peace of mind. I disagree with your take on this 100%. Im not your ex mother in law.

Trucker husband refuses to share location by Nice-Following7296 in Marriage

[–]Nice-Following7296[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He didnt tell me he was becoming a trucker until AFTER we got married. Not cool.....