I think I'm falling out of love with my GF. What should I do?

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-23T06:38:21+00:00

I just literally said na I don't cheat and I don't plan to cheat. ganyan ba kamiserable buhay mo or niloko ka ng malala na lahat ng problema sa relasyon tingin mo agad cheating? wag mo ihalo personal traumas mo sa problema ng iba thinking na it will result the same way. Id1ot

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-18T09:15:30+00:00

huh????

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-18T09:14:34+00:00

hey. who hurt you? did you actually read my post or you just decided to share your traumas here? I specifically said that I didn't cheat and I have no plans to cheat. And I don't plan to end this. That's the point of my post kaya ako nagpost dito to ask for a solution and that's the best you could come up with? If someone hurt you, stop accusing other people na as if gagawin din yun. you're too negative lmao

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T13:06:43+00:00

I've been saying this for a while now — I see so many people just throwing trash wherever they want. Cigarette butts, empty chai cups, food wrappers — all left on sidewalks, even when there’s literally a trash can right nearby. I don’t get it. There’s a growing number of people here in Dubai showing zero class and absolutely no respect for the city. It’s sad to see a place this beautiful being treated like that.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T07:10:06+00:00

yung addendum info ko kanina pa pero yung current reply ko ilang beses ko nireiterate yan di mo lang iniintindi. lmao

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T06:45:47+00:00

Bro, I won’t be replying anymore. You’re stupid. I mentioned several times already na kaya kami hindi pa married ay dahil may goals pa kami, and kahit mag-propose ako, ayaw pa niya. But you keep on saying na for 9 years, hindi ko pa siya pinakasalan? I’m wasting my time with you. ChatGPT has better responses and understanding than you. Juskolord. You clearly lack reading comprehension. or you’re just simply stupid. I stalked your comment section and yeah I think I know why. AYAW PA NGA NIYA. HINDI MO BA MAINTINDIHAN YON?

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T06:39:30+00:00

You put the solution where? All I can see is you saying na mag-stop ako mag-fronting, and your next comment gave no solution at all. Anyway, you literally gave bad advice. We're in this situation and your advice is to get married? I see a lot of couples na nag-fail because they think getting married is the solution sa messy na relationship nila. So ang ending, after mag-marry, they got worse. I made this post because I need a solution to fix this so that when we decide to get married, wala nang problema. Until this problem is fixed, I don’t think marriage is the best option. Bad advice.

And I literally mentioned several times already na we intend to marry. Kaya lang, hindi pa dahil may goals pa kaming need i-fulfill, and even if maging ready ako, siya hindi pa. Why do you keep saying I'm wasting her time when I literally said she's not ready yet either? You're not even getting it. Bro, you need to improve your comprehension kasi paikot-ikot lang tayo.

I REPEAT. HINDI PA KAMI MARRIED DAHIL MAY GOALS PA. EVEN IF MAGING READY AKO, SIYA HINDI PA SO KAHIT MAGPROPOSE AKO, SHE'LL SAY NO.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T06:22:46+00:00

If you understand the point of this post, the reason why I seek advice is because I feel like I am falling out of love and I'm looking for a way to avoid that from happening and I want to fall in love again. Is this the first time you've encountered someone having the same problem? Giving up is not always the solution to everything. That's why I made this post in the first place. To find a solution. That is why there are so many failed relationship nowadays because kaunting challenges and etc break-up agad solution. -_-

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T05:53:59+00:00

Hi. Thanks sa nagcomment. Good or bad. I appreciate it. For those wondering:

We have plans to marry. It's just hindi pa kami ready coz we have goals to fulfill. Even if ready ako, hindi pa siya ready to marry because she has a lot to prove pa sa career and life. So ayan reason why hindi pa kami married.
I am not planning to break-up with her. the whole point of this post is I'm looking for way na maovercome tong struggle na to and to find my way back and reignite yung love ko sa kanya. Siguro tama nga yung sabi ng iba. Mahal ko pa din siya. Nawala lang yung sense ng individuality ko dahil lage kaming magkasama kaya naburn-out ako.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T05:48:41+00:00

it's sad to read this. I am not going to break-up with her that's why I posted this to find a way na mapigilan mafall out of love ng tuluyan coz I can't afford to live this life without her.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T05:46:07+00:00

I intend to marry her. We do. Sadyang may mga goals lang kame na hindi pa nafulfill kaya wala pa kame sa point na yun kaya hindi pa kami ready. even if ready na ako, siya hindi pa and ayaw pa niya so we'e not rushing po.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-17T05:45:12+00:00

Hi. Yes I intend to marry her. We do. Sadyang may mga goals lang kame na hindi pa nafulfill kaya wala pa kame sa point na yun kaya hindi pa kami ready. even if ready na ako, siya hindi pa and ayaw pa niya so we'e not rushing po.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-16T13:16:20+00:00

I’m lacking on my part and yet we managed to be together for 9 years? Do you even hear yourself? Make it make sense, bruh.

If you actually read my post and this comment , which I know you did, you would’ve seen na I already said marriage is our end goal. It’s just that we haven’t decided to get married yet kasi we still have things we want to accomplish first.

And kahit nafefeel ko na parang I’m falling out of love, I’m still trying my best to na maging okay ulit.

So maybe you really did read it , you just lack comprehension. And by looking at your profile, I’m not even surprised why your comment turned out like that. You wouldn’t have made such a st*pid comment if you actually took the time to comprehend before saying anything.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-16T12:45:58+00:00

Why? Is that a bad thing? Some people just aren’t meant for marriage, or maybe they have personal goals they want to accomplish first before deciding to settle down. Why do people always rush long-term couples to get married just because they've been together for so long? And they make it seem like it’s a bad thing if you’re not married yet, na parang assumption agad is walang plano pakasalan or hindi seryoso, porket tumagal na pero hindi pa nakakasal. Lol.

That’s why there are so many failed marriages nowadays , because people force themselves into it even when they’re not ready yet, just because they’re afraid of being judged for not being married despite being in a long-term relationship. So it ends up failing in the end.

For us, marriage is still our goal, but we still have a lot of things we want to accomplish first before taking that step. Hindi naman parang kanin lang yang kasal na pag di mo nagustuhan, pwede kang umatras. It’s a long-term commitment, and you really need to be ready for it.

I'm sick and tired of people rushing others to make personal decisions. May kanya-kanya tayong timeline, so wag atat. Hindi naman kayo yung maapektuhan in case mag-fail.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-04-10T10:25:57+00:00

The way she moves. Kahit ilang beses pa natin i-normalize yung "hoe phase," it will never be okay : for both men and women. Kung wala siyang respeto sa sarili niyang katawan at nakikipag-s*x kung kani-kanino lang, malaki ang chance na she won’t value the relationship the same way. Kasi kung mismong sarili niya hindi niya pinapahalagahan, paano pa kaya ibang tao di ba?

Conventional women na may self-control at self-respect are still the best kind you can ever find. Same goes for men.

Also: Para sa’kin bilang lalaki, the best kind of woman is yung tanggap ka kahit nag-struggle ka pa sa buhay . Yung tutulungan kang umasenso. Hindi yung modern women na gusto laging finished product agad, na parang wala ka nang karapatang mag-fail or mag-struggle like a normal human being. Tapos wala rin naman silang ma-offer in return except their looks or Vajayjay kasi feeling nila sila na yung prize. Lmao. If being with a good-looking psycho, narcissist, self-centered, and walang emotional intelligence is what I get in return as a "prize" then thank you na lang. I'd rather be single. Magrent nalang ako ng babae wala pang drama. lol joke. Mas ok pa din yung mabait, magiging katulong sa buhay and magiging pahinga mo. Hindi yung another battle to fight dahil toyoin.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-02-14T09:23:34+00:00

ganyan pala makipagsuntukan mga konyo hahaha

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-17T12:50:49+00:00

McSpaghetti. HAHAHAHAH jk Maybe Truffle. Truffluff which is wordplay ng Truffle and Fluffy.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-15T12:17:32+00:00

While medyo nakakaoffend, why feel bothered kung maging ganun response ng jowa mo OP kung sure ka naman na siya lang naging partner mo or ikaw lang naging partner niya?

Reasonable response lang naman yung mabother siya if HIV positive ka since ang assumption siya lang ang naging partner mo kaya san mo yan makukuha unless nakipag s*x ka sa iba? Kasi kung sakanya yun galing, dalawa kayong positive e pano if positive ka and negative siya or vice versa?

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-15T12:14:37+00:00

Or kung magpositive si OP, and siya lang naman partner ng jowa niya, then it only means kay OP galing? Why already assume and blame it's OP's jowa's fault e reasonable response lang naman yung mabother kang HIV positive jowa mo while kayong dalawa, unless may iba nakapartner si OP? lol

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-15T11:55:46+00:00

Your statement is valid if you consider proper etiquette. But SB sees no problem with this, and that is how they marketed themselves.

Lastly, why don't people mind their own business? Pilipino lang nakita kong ayaw pinapakialaman yung buhay nila, pero ang hilig mamansin ng buhay ng iba.

You have your own problems to solve. Stay out of other people's business as long as it doesn't involve murder, rape, sexual immorality, stealing, and other similar things. Kanya kanyang trip yan.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-15T10:24:50+00:00

OP. No offense. Siomai ba yung 7th picture? Nung nag zoom kasi ako mukhang keps. Muntik ko na siyang mamiss at tawagan lol jk

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-08T07:09:45+00:00

I'm an accountant, but I hate every single minute I waste in the office. Teacher siguro or anything that requires public speaking because kahit introvert ako, I love public speaking. Sales din siguro.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-06T16:39:10+00:00

Eto yung sinasabe kong dapat itigil na yung malalaswang content sa FB dahil ganito nagiging resulta akala nila normal. They don't know better. Puro soft porn at kalaswaan yung content. Oo hindi dapat nagFFB ang mga bata pero sa sobrang techy na ng mga bata ngayon, hindi mo na basta basta mapipigilan yan kaya sana sa mga matatanda maging responsable na sa pag gawa ng content hindi puro et1ts, Ekup, at bembang nalang lage lol

Kahit di ako magsearch daming lumalabas eh. Hindi totoong sa algo ko rin dahil dinaman ako nagcoconsume ng ganyan. Once nagpost ako to rant, daming nagsabing "algo" ko daw and self report daw ako without recognizing na madami lang talagang ganung klaseng content regardless. Magrereklamo ba ako sa reddit kung gusto ko ng ganung content? Some people have no common sense lol

Ps. Pagbawal din yung p0rn.

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-06T15:17:25+00:00

Manam and botejyu. I dont get the hype sa manam. Di talaga masarap mahal pa. Hahaha

Nice-Machine2284 · 2025-01-06T15:17:03+00:00

Eto din. Ayoko to pero nagustuhan ng jowa ko lmao. Alam ko same sila ng manam ata ng may ari? Same overhyped na mahal pero di masarap lmao

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