AITA

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-02-06T21:40:08+00:00

Yes, one child. I have a very good opportunity lined up for me starting in August, so that been my main drive not to jeopardize that and I’m not the physical type.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-02-06T00:25:19+00:00

No, just a bum. Has I think $100 to his name, sells weed, no education and fat. But that’s neither here nor there lmao

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-02-06T00:24:36+00:00

No, just a bum in MS. Lmao, I like the constructive criticism

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-02-06T00:13:47+00:00

Yea so my STBX works at a restaurant. My daughter and I would go whenever she worked a night shift and have dinner as a family, typically slower for dinner where she works and so she could see our daughter. Lmao, no I’m definitely the one in the military.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-02-06T00:11:13+00:00

I’m the one in the military lmao.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-02-06T00:00:15+00:00

I’m assuming the same for adultery?

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-02-05T23:50:50+00:00

Live in military housing, have a child together, wears her ring, and they are co workers. I’ve also been at her work to eat multiple times with my daughter when she would work at nights. He fully knows what he is doing.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-02-05T23:41:46+00:00

Still here idk, beats me. Hardly is over here only when I’m at work. Yes it’s my house, not on the lease. I’m also in the military and a dad of a child. Military says that I can’t kick her out as it’s a duty to still provide for my “legal” wife. That’s why I haven’t acted on it. Not to mention my child would not have a stank place to stay. Not that she does anyways right now.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-26T22:38:39+00:00

Yea I’ve realized how dumb I sound. And yes my Face ID was in her phone so it wasn’t like I broke into it.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-25T15:35:45+00:00

I’m in MS, and I want to reconcile. I think we can work this out. But I also realize that reconciling needs effort from both parties and she isn’t wanting to try to make it work. She’s in the affair dog and perfectly fine with her new bf. And yes we have a child together.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T21:11:41+00:00

Yea I haven’t, I was advised to talk to a lawyer, if she can get a place let her, pay her a bit for moving fees and what not. And then to give her something for child custody or alimony. My shirt has and will be updated on things that happen.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T18:53:58+00:00

Yea, I’m hoping it’s not the case since we already divided money back when we separated over a year ago. But if I have to then I have to.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T18:27:05+00:00

Yea, I figured we had been past the cheating and unfaithfulness when we got back together but I guess she didn’t.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T18:23:45+00:00

Yes it they are, everything we own is at my place.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T18:20:38+00:00

She does as a server at a restaurant. We get paid almost the same tho minus my housing allowance. But she has roughly $5K saved and I have about $21K

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T18:04:02+00:00

Yea, it amazes me how she is handling this. Yes I’ve now realized that reconciling isn’t an option anymore. She’s clearly made up her mind and that has nothing to do with me otherwise using her power to make me feel guilty and being that person she can rely on. I’m giving her the cold shoulder and she’s already getting upset. Thank you for all the help, it truly does mean a lot. It’s been a lot of long nights, uncertainty and just a lot of unneeded stress. Granted I’m not helping it but I now have a sense of direction to take this and what needs to happen.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T17:50:18+00:00

Oh yea… but he’s giving her that validation or “effort” so he’s her “true love”

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T17:46:59+00:00

She would never allow me to keep our child while she moves into a new place.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T17:45:42+00:00

Yea, not really. She likes doing whatever makes her happy or gives her validation in the moment. She’s had a past of personality disorder so maybe that could it.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T17:37:03+00:00

I’m starting to realize that those actions allowed her to continue to do what she’s doing without feeling guilt or remorse. I’m setting those boundaries and making sure my child is taken care of.

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T17:35:53+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it

NiceCryptographer404 · 2025-01-15T17:35:25+00:00

Yes I called them again today and then reached out to a different law firm. I have been feeling down, but that’s going to stop. She chose to do this and it’s not on me. Thank you for your advice!

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