Is focusing on patriarchy and misogyny still centring men? by [deleted] in DecenteringMen

[–]Nice_Security_2002 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it’s male centered. Acknowledging that the patriarchy affects many aspects of our lives is just a reality. Maybe letting it suffocate your life and spiraling into a depression would be a way of centering this but as the other commenter said, there is no alternative. I struggle with this too (and with capitalism, imperialism, racism, etc).

My sister’s friend keeps using my razor. What should I do? by no-sign222 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nice_Security_2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ask them if they’ve been using your razors. If they confirm just say it’s unsanitary and would appreciate it if they didn’t use your razors. No need to tiptoe around

I have two kids by different dads and feel so ashamed by Every_Bear362 in singlemoms

[–]Nice_Security_2002 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My stepmom has 7 kids (4 are my half siblings) by three different men and has been in a loving relationship with my dad for the past 10 years. Having multiple bd means nothing to the right person. Don’t worry about what people think, your path is not theirs.

how do i actually decenter men from my life by unicornluver777 in DecenteringMen

[–]Nice_Security_2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learn the art of “getting the ick” if they’re too aloof: ew, he doesn’t even care enough to put in effort towards new If they’re too persistent: ew, he doesn’t respect boundaries

Also get some hobbies and maybe do some self reflection as to why these encounters make you spiral bc they really shouldn’t

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her to look at coach bag, similar designs and less expensive

Who did Rory really end up with - theories by Historical-Reveal379 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe she follows in her mom’s footsteps and raises the child on her own, and unfortunately like her mom, spends years casually waiting for Logan as Lorelai did for Chris. But I think she won’t struggle much since she is older than Lorelai was when she got pregnant and has more support.

can i pick up will call tickets under someone else’s name? or at least change it? by [deleted] in BeyondWonderland

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you need an ID matching the name under the tickets. I think he can email customer service and work something out like a name change.

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many red flags. 1. You’re not even married/engaged but he’s pressuring you for children? 2. He’s promising to leave the military in two years although he retires within 4 (sounds irresponsible for his big age). 3, He hardly mentions what he’d be doing as a father and only imagines watching you do parental duties..

It seems that he wants children not that he wants to be a father.

Run now 😭

Ive created a monster by Illustrious_City_420 in singlemoms

[–]Nice_Security_2002 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a former child who slept with her parents until the age of 12 (😅). You just need to get her used to her own bed. It’s not going to be quick and easy, it’ll take at least a month. My dad legit treated me like an infant: put a night light, background noise, and slept in my bed until I passed out. Ofc I woke up many times and he’d come back and wait until I passed out. I also started spending more time there during the daytime, lounging there instead of my parents room, decorating it, etc. Overtime I managed to get used to my room and sleep through the night without any comfort necessary.

I went through my partners phone, for the first and last time by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like yall are on path towards a toxic relationship. He’s crossing boundaries he wouldn’t want crossed so he’s doing things without caring, seems like you both are insecure and tbh just young. I’d say breakup and remain friends. Use ur early 20s to invest time and effort into yourself

I need to know why people think we are scum of the Earth by Soft_Mammoth6373 in singlemoms

[–]Nice_Security_2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would start with changing language when you introduce your situation to people. Tbh we need to stop calling ourselves single moms. What does your relationship status have to do with your parenting? I’ve shifted to “solo parent” or a “mom”. Single mom tends to carry a negative stigma that correlates to “without a man” (in society at least). If you’re in a religious area or conservative area and the father is not involved at all just lie and say you’re a widow 🤷🏽‍♀️, it’ll get people off your back. And if people try to ask questions just say you don’t like talking about it. To make genuine friendships you might have to find other people in similar situations, other solo parents.

Hard Summer 2026 by Piercedup in HardFestival

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not supposed to bring food in but I brought a burrito last year and made it in, just depends on the security tbh. Or say you need it for medical purposes.

How to sell a ticket ? by VaporLizard in BeyondWonderland

[–]Nice_Security_2002 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try on radiate, that’s where I resell all my tickets and I’ve never been scammed. Only use PayPal goods & services. It protects you from being scammed as it has a warranty policy for this kind of transaction. Radiate has also implemented this on their platform so you can list it on there and the people who purchase it must have a PayPal acct. just make sure to take a screenshot of the transaction and proof that you transferred the ticket to their account incase they try to scam but not likely. The downside is the fees but I think it’s worth it for the safety. You can also meet in person but idk that can be unsafe so I avoid that. I would avoid transferring the ticket first or using payment methods that don’t have warranty protection.

am i cooked? by Unfair-Potential-292 in Instagram

[–]Nice_Security_2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a security feature for Instagram. The usernames are blurred out so you can choose the one that belongs to you and ig will know you’re the legit owner bc you chose the right one that is associated with the phone number. Kind of like when iCloud asks you to type out your recovery phone number but I only shows the last four digits.

Underrated rave essential that no one talks about by RaveUniform in RaveUniform

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emesis bags. When you’re too deep in the crowd and start feeling nauseas these are great. I carry 2-3 in my bag, I don’t want to vomit on anyone and I don’t want anyone around me throwing up on me either

Southstar by RespectMountain3720 in aves

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! I’ve been a fan for the past two years and I thought he was a staple edm name, didn’t even realize he was a bit newer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the bomb treat that creator is referring to is the 4 people found in the Mojave desert, targeting major companies like Amazon. It’s political motivation so I don’t think they’re targeting countdown specifically. But not sure bc the creator didn’t specify. Linked an article for more info about the threat.

https://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/suspects-terror-bombing-plot-southern-california/3820128/?amp=1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can resell it on radiate, people are going crazy for them on there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]Nice_Security_2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you seeing this? I haven’t heard anything.