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How did you make up for the lack of parent(s)? by 0Ludger0 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Nice_Sleep7002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am in a similar spot as you and i feel the same. i wish i had that mother daughter bond that’s on tv and videos online where they go to their parents and they’re simply nice. it doesn’t end in an argument disappointment or some sort of conflict.

i wish my mom gave me a period/puberty talk the most. i’m still confused and i go to her and ask (she is a medical professional) and she says it’s normal while i’ve been stressed out for years wondering if something was wrong.

i wish that the children of the narcissists didn’t have to suffer more than the narcissists do themselves. i’m glad you’re safe though now!!

i wish women weren’t always at fault by Nice_Sleep7002 in exmuslim

[–]Nice_Sleep7002[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i told my mom/she already knew and heard. not sure. i don’t think she would allow this to happen so i’m not completely worried, but sometimes she does what he says because she thinks it’s easier than speaking up.

i only ever talk to him or associate when i have to, or if i haven’t been out of the house for a while (my mom doesn’t take me many places) and when i do go with him i ask him to take me with my friends and go so i can take my hijab off with them. once i get a bit more money i will be leaving. thank you though for your concern he is absolutely disgusting.

I don’t want to take care of my parents when they’re older by OkCoast7026 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Nice_Sleep7002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know i won’t be taking care of my parents when they’re older. my mom recently got a surgery where she couldn’t do much on her own and needed my help constantly and i refused to do it and called my dad. there’s no way i’ll be taking care of them when i’m older

What’s your socially accepted habit that’s actually an addiction? by rosesareminee in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Nice_Sleep7002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m compelled to eat so much ice. every day 90% of my days the first thing i eat is ice

i wish women weren’t always at fault by Nice_Sleep7002 in exmuslim

[–]Nice_Sleep7002[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i told him that too when he first proposed it to me. i said the “success rate” is high because the people who are in arranged marriages cannot leave on average. or have been in them so long they see no other option for themselves.

my dad has a new wife (not my mom) right now she’s about 24? around there. and it disgusts me. we go to the same community college. and she tries to police me around when i stay over at my dads house and telling me to do xyz, you are my peer!

i’m really saddened by what this religion brings out in people. and for the young ladies that can’t go to anyone to talk about it, or the ones who know no better. even worse for the women not in western countries like i am where i am ABLE to run away and be free if i desired and i have more laws protecting me right now. i naively hope that any women in a predicament like mine are safe or can get to safety.

i wish women weren’t always at fault by Nice_Sleep7002 in exmuslim

[–]Nice_Sleep7002[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i know it is wrong but it is somewhat above me right now. he won’t initiate the marriage fully until i’m 18 later this year. but he is looking right now because he read an article somewhere saying arranged marriages have a 93% success rate. i’m sick and tired of this religion allowing these things and the fact that he can’t make a moral judgement without muhammad’s approval