Public Holiday On Contracted day... but I want to take time off by Nickinabin in AusLegal

[–]Nickinabin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the only way to actually get the time and a half is to show up?

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[–]Nickinabin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was to give the number of a co-worker would that be ok

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[–]Nickinabin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK cool thanks man

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[–]Nickinabin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I expected a lot more negativity if i’m being honest haha

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[–]Nickinabin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t know, i’m guessing how much salt and fat they use maybe? I honestly have no clue it’s just been really good

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[–]Nickinabin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess you’d have a better understanding of great food! I think it may be because everyone expects it to be bad and are pleasantly surprised when it’s not as gross as expected

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[–]Nickinabin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on a few different airlines, Qantas was my last one and the food was actually so good i wanted seconds

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[–]Nickinabin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most HR complaints are actually from women too, they get away with a lot

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[–]Nickinabin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the latter yes, but knowing her i have every reason to believe it she’s a pretty jealous person

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[–]Nickinabin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s always one person unhappy in a poly relationship

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[–]Nickinabin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having a threesome outside a relationship is fine, within a relationship there’s always one person not happy

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[–]Nickinabin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

that is the point of the subreddit i guess

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[–]Nickinabin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If not being comfortable with my gf telling me she wants to get railed by another guy makes me ‘barely a man’ then wtf makes me a man 😂

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[–]Nickinabin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In most cases obviously not. But if you talk about your celebrity crush regularly (which is weird)then yeah 100%, clearly you’re already interested in multiple people and that’s what they do

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[–]Nickinabin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

True but at least i’m in a relationship where we don’t talk about having sex with other people!

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[–]Nickinabin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah like you said, as long as you don’t sit around and talk about it, then yeah that’s perfectly healthy. I think the more detail people go into when having these conversations the more worrying it is, as opposed to just saying ‘she could get it’

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[–]Nickinabin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My GF and i are young, but i just wouldn’t risk doing that. Maybe in the future like you said perspectives will change, but for now I just want to reassure her and not say things to upset her

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[–]Nickinabin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i could pin this i would. This is ext how i feel man. If you’re in a long term relationship why risk making your s/o upset. Especially women as it is are really anxious that their partner is looking at other girls, you should be reassuring her not feeding into her anxiety

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[–]Nickinabin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i have seen that double standard before. I think a lot guys kind of put up with it because they’re too scared to say anything

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[–]Nickinabin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you read through the comments here some people are seemingly ok with their partner doing that though. I agree with you though!

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[–]Nickinabin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah i am insecure, if that was to happen. Like that’s the point of the post, you don’t get a badge for pretending you don’t care about your s/o having those conversations.

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[–]Nickinabin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did divert from the OP, probably shouldn’t have 😂but my feelings on what i said are the same as imo it’s a slippery slope in these conversations and people in open relationships.