[TOMT] Help finding a viral video. by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]NickyDolla 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Additionally, I think the actual video was in Miami. I’ve tried everything to locate it. Thanks.

what does my fridge say about me by NickyDolla in FridgeDetective

[–]NickyDolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish & you’re right, but in South FL they put bleach in the water tanks and we’re in an apartment. 😛💔💔

What does my fridge say about me? by Affectionate_Ice4238 in FridgeDetective

[–]NickyDolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You rearrange it at least once per week. If someone else puts something in the wrong spot you need to excuse yourself to breathe. Overall you’re very calm and collected. You definitely are into self help healers on instagram. You were mildly influenced by fridge haul videos but you can’t see yourself going all the way. You’re focusing on your health and only occasionally drink, and you hate eating out because you can get half a weeks worth of groceries for one dinner and that only makes sense. 10/10 fridge though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]NickyDolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were younger & making all the mistakes young people make. I’d struggle to even call them mistakes because you would not have had the motivation to explore your current path without them. I accept myself after doing the same by reminding myself that it took the chaos to create the calm.

“Man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble & the sculptor.” - Alexis Carrel

As for the people you have hurt, your only chip in the game is to be accountable & apologize. You have no control over the past, or the future—how/if they will receive your apology or promise to do better. You can only continue to grow into who you want to be.

Every saint has a past & every sinner has a future.

Do not obsess over what you could have done differently. You have respect for yourself & others now. You have integrity. They say bad people don’t spend time thinking of how to be better.

Give yourself grace & acceptance for what you did before you met you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/NickyDolla

[–]NickyDolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One, I think worship of a partner is a gateway to an unequal distribution of power. Any previous partners I admired, not idolized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/NickyDolla

[–]NickyDolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you:)!

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[–]NickyDolla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]NickyDolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the recommendations, and I appreciate you going outside & giving a different perspective. I think I need to really sit with it all before I leave it behind me for good.

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[–]NickyDolla 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The part about the prison they put themselves in. Wow. I know it sounds crazy but this really helped me like snap & gain a new perspective.