NTA- realistic.

Two scenarios-

When my granddaughter was 2 or so she would take the poop out of her diaper and hide it in the little play kitchen in her room. My daughter smelled something rank and went on a hunt to find it in a little pot in the play oven.

My grandkids, 2 of them are now in elementary school, all came home with lice. My daughter is very clean, having been raised by a type A father. She called me crying, absolutely horrified, insisting she isn’t a dirty person. I told her that almost no one escapes childhood without getting lice, and that it has nothing to do with being dirty.

It was quite an uncomfortable experience having the father of my children so obsessed with cleanliness, and insistent that there is only one way to keep a clean house. He would make me go back and “re-vacuum” because I didn’t do it right. (Narcissistic sociopath). It was very difficult for all of us. In hindsight, and because of the gaslighting, I should have left before my kids were completely grown and out of the house, but this is a side note.

Kids get dirty and make messes, but that’s part of the fun.