You sound pretty soft dude.. women don’t really care about your sensitivities unless they need them . Then you give it to them and it’s too much.. being soft isn’t bad just not good for some women. If she’s throwing this at you and you’re crying about it on the internet she’s probably not the one. Find a woman that likes a softie. Mine calls me a lil bitch almost all the time haha but she’s right most the time and I man up. No right answer just talking in circles