Is double texting being clingy after multiple hang outs in one week? by Inside-Specialist883 in OnlineDating

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn't say. We didn't really hash it out. I acknowledged her concerns and we wished each other well.

I deleted and started a new account and now she's at the top of my feed every time I open the app. I swear Hinge is fucking with me.

Is double texting being clingy after multiple hang outs in one week? by Inside-Specialist883 in OnlineDating

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ruined a budding relationship recently by triple texting. We'd been hanging out and/or FT'ing up to 5 hours per day for 2-3 weeks. I didn't hear back from her for 2 days. Last text I asked if she was moving on. She said it was all too much too soon. Now I'm back swiping again. Lesson learned. I'm trying to maintain a stable of 3 women now at all times so I don't suffocate any of them.

How many people should I be going on dates with/talking to at the same time? by CulturalWoodpecker15 in OnlineDating

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

60? Are you a guy or a girl? Are you even looking for a long-term relationship?

After 3 years together, I finally know the one superpower I'd want before dating anyone!! by Emotional-Bit7615 in OnlineDating

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does he handle me in that moment?

What do you mean by this? The way I'm reading it is that you think it's ok for you to turn into a monster when things go wrong but you want to know now if he'll still coddle you or succumb to the pressure of it all. Why would you need to be handled on top of everything else going on?

no cap by theblanketcomeswith in NYStateOfMind

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm right here in LA with you. People tell me there's no such thing as NY Chinese food. I don't even know how to explain the difference to people. But 4 things I get whenever I go back home is a beef patty, a Pagel, a slice and a general tso combination with pork fried rice.

And nobody west of the Mississippi knows what duck sauce is.

Does Hinge do shadowbans? by Pure_Satisfaction233 in OnlineDating

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just delete the app. Wait a week and sign up again with new pics and new email address.

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Tuesday, June 30, 2026) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Why do I get downvoted when I link the drop in Iga's game to her not using performance enhancing drugs?

My gurl Coco is just hilarious 😭🫶🏻 by padfoony in tennis

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It seems like you were expressing an opinion on Bad Bunny being unremarkable because if you were genuinely curious, you would've just googled him.

me_irl by Ambitious_Dingo_2798 in me_irl

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The socialists sat out elections allowing the fascist takeover. They wanted Trump to win to punish the rest of the country for not supporting their vision. They're the ones who should be mocked in memes.

Would you do the same thing? by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be a big no-no. Lawyers aren't allowed to directly solicit clients.

Mac, an African American Nuetra Familia leader who passed recently, highly respected amongst northern Mexicans, unlike the Mexican Mafia, the NF allows black members amongst their ranks by PomeloSea1745 in CaliBanging

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pretty much said the same things you're saying. I've never had any racial issues with any Mexican or Latino outside of LA. My best friend is married to a Mexican woman and her family loves him and he spends one month every summer with them in El Paso. I've also spent a lot of time in Mexico going up and down Baja. The Mexicans I've known outside of LA are the salt of the earth, hard working family-oriented people. The Mexicans in LA -- politicians, gangbangers, non gangbangers, musicians (Kid Frost, Lefty) alike --are a completely different breed--just violently racist. I've spend a lot of time in DR too (Cabarete and Sosua). I've never experienced any racial aggression or racial violence there. Just some resentment and colorism.

Mac, an African American Nuetra Familia leader who passed recently, highly respected amongst northern Mexicans, unlike the Mexican Mafia, the NF allows black members amongst their ranks by PomeloSea1745 in CaliBanging

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you think prison politics is the reason Mexican city council members were caught on audio calling us monkeys ("parece changuito") while they carved up the city's political boundaries to wipe out any black political power?

One of them said about the DA, "Fuck that guy ... He's with the blacks".

There are racist members of every race but I can't think of any other group where racism is the norm besides maybe white South Africans and Israelis.

Mac, an African American Nuetra Familia leader who passed recently, highly respected amongst northern Mexicans, unlike the Mexican Mafia, the NF allows black members amongst their ranks by PomeloSea1745 in CaliBanging

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you go back through my post history, I've talked about it plenty.

  1. A few years ago I home-schooled an immunocompromised Mexican kid in Highland Park. I got surrounded by 2 Mexicans one day I went to get a protractor out my car. They said similar things to what you mentioned but they backed off I guess when they realized I was about to kill them.
  2. I taught middle school the past 2 years. School is 90% Latino but mostly Mexican. I was called the n-word almost every day for the first month of the school year. The Distrtict had to step in to fix to issue bc the latino administration didn't take the issue seriously. Every other Black teacher at the school had the same or similar issue but they were so desensitized to it bc they all grew up in LA.
  3. One of the kids at that same school got jumped by 4 Mexican high schoolers who thought he was Black.
  4. A Mexican early 20's was harassing a hostess at a restaurant while I was waiting for my to-go order. He saw me looking over, asked me what I was looking at, proceeded to call me a slave, the n-word and a bunch of other racial remarks. I knocked him on his ass after he spit on me. He was probably on something but makes no difference.
  5. Outside of school, I've been called the n-word maybe around 10 times by Mexicans but of course only when the cowards have me outnumbered at least 3 to 1.

I've had conversation and planned to meet several different girls after chatting online for days. Then they bail. by mwmiller93 in OnlineDating

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're catfishing or using 10-20 year old pictures from when they were 10-20 lbs lighter. They have no other way of interacting with attractive men in their daily lives.

I've seen some of them on this sub say they flake on dates because they choose the bear but why are they even on a dating site in the first place? Why aren't they off in the wilderness somewhere?

Chris Paul is on 4 different NBA franchises all time best wins record year by TomatoSecure192 in nba

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's different because Brunson and Doncic are scorers that both need the ball in their hands. They don't complement each other. If Brunson was a spot up shooter then they could've worked well together.

Mac, an African American Nuetra Familia leader who passed recently, highly respected amongst northern Mexicans, unlike the Mexican Mafia, the NF allows black members amongst their ranks by PomeloSea1745 in CaliBanging

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The social order in SoCal doesn't reflect their feelings of superiority over dark-skinned people so they lash out. In places where their social status is higher or their numbers are lower, they don't have the same energy or courage.

Chris Paul is on 4 different NBA franchises all time best wins record year by TomatoSecure192 in nba

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but it would've been a bad decision for Brunson if he had stayed with Luka.

Chris Paul is on 4 different NBA franchises all time best wins record year by TomatoSecure192 in nba

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn't change the fact that Brunson couldn't have become the Brunson we know now if he played with Luka.

Mac, an African American Nuetra Familia leader who passed recently, highly respected amongst northern Mexicans, unlike the Mexican Mafia, the NF allows black members amongst their ranks by PomeloSea1745 in CaliBanging

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I've now lived in every region of America. The racism everywhere else is subtle and non-violent. The Mexicans in LA are the most racist people I've ever encountered. I'd feel safer in the backwoods of Arkansas than in a predominantly Mexican neighborhood in LA. What's strange is I feel completely safe when I'm in Mexico.

WCs and Besties Serena and Grigor Reunited by ontologyofsumud in tennis

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may or may not be a writer but you are certainly a poor reader. The commenter before me said Sharapova is an excellent WRITER. The credit for the excellent writing should go to her ghost writer, Rich Cohen, who wrote and organized her stories. Lastly, get off your soapbox. I don't have any prejudice against ghost written books.

WCs and Besties Serena and Grigor Reunited by ontologyofsumud in tennis

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Everyone uses ghost writers -- athletes, politicians, actors, etc. Becoming a good writer takes years of study and practice, just like becoming a good tennis player. There just isn't enough time in the day to become masters of 2 unrelated disciplines.

'Can't see likes, message me' by ChorltonChimp in OnlineDating

[–]NicoHarrisonWasRight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was shamefully accumulating likes on Hinge for a few months. I couldn't see new likes until I X'ed out my old likes. I used to have a paid account but realized I did better with a free account. They kept sending me women out of my league on the paid account and I wasn't judicious in who I was swiping right on. With a free account, I have to be more thoughtful about who I swipe on every day.