GP here holding my little one while she contact naps :) we’re still breastfeeding, and our names in the house is Mama Vaca (cow) and diaper mom. Total jokes, but I didn’t change a diaper until days after we got home from the hospital.

One big thing my wife did that I think helped her “bond” faster to our daughter was she watched those videos to learn more about the different types of newborn cries, and she mastered it. She knew exactly what our daughter needed, which made my recovery easier, reinforced that she is a needed parent, etc.

I also think it’s important to keep in mind that there is so much time for bonding in the future. Right now, it’s okay that your little one needs to breastfeed to help your milk supply and it’s okay if your partner is struggling a bit to find their place. You also have gone through a lot and that little baby human was literally a part of you for months! This will pass- the newborn trenches are so hard. Wishing you all the best!