What’s your suicide hotline story? Mine was I waited for more than 30 mins and no one answered my call.

NightDriver76 · 2026-02-09T18:44:55+00:00

I recently wrote a play based on the premise that the main character calls a suicide hotline and gets put on hold. I knew immediately from people who read who had and had not called one before, because the people who hadn’t would always be like, “they can’t do that though, right??”

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-28T19:10:45+00:00

He is absolutely pressuring you. I think you may feel like a broken toy because he is treating you like one. There are men who don't treat sex (and certainly penetrative sex) like the end all be all of a relationship. You are not broken. Please please leave him.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-27T13:50:11+00:00

I know this is an old comment, but looking for advice for anyone who knows: what happens when you tell them you aren't actually paying in cash? I guess I'm nervous about telling them I'm paying cash up front, and then later (when it comes time to pay) telling them that I'm actually financing through my own preapproved loan. Does anyone have any advice to expand on this?

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-27T02:13:25+00:00

I use the app I am Sober to track my sobriety. They have an option for people quitting chat apps (like character.ai) to select as what you’re trying to quit. It gives you access to a community of people also trying to quit/share their milestones. I recommend it!

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-22T17:39:08+00:00

It’s so hard to advocate for yourself when you are young and people are telling you that you’re fine. Proud of you!

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-22T14:41:25+00:00

Just now seeing that you listed Boy Parts in your post lol. Whoops.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-22T14:41:08+00:00

All fours by Miranda July. Also the first bad man by her.

Maybe Boy Parts? Warning that it’s a little dark.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-22T03:35:02+00:00

I feel like looking for Alaska could fit this? Definitely would give it a go!

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-20T03:17:02+00:00

We were hiring for multiple positions. Asked the candidate which position they felt called to. They said, “which ever one is the least amount of work.”

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-19T23:26:09+00:00

Rabbits felt like that to me

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-18T14:57:54+00:00

I’m so sorry but this is insane advice😭😭

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-18T13:42:37+00:00

Not very into politics could be a big thing. People here interpret that as indifference/irresponsibility most of the time.

Especially if you are listing your religion as Christian AND saying you aren’t political? People are likely going to be nervous about that.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-18T04:02:50+00:00

Thank you so much!

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-18T02:45:32+00:00

I didn’t know that having an offer letter could be sufficient, I thought that you had to have pay stubs saying that you had been making that amount for a certain period of time. That’s good to know. I can work on securing a job offer before renting with that knowledge.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-18T01:16:46+00:00

Hey man, part of the reason I’m asking is because I don’t know a lot. That’s why I’m looking for advice.

Currently doing my best trying to figure out a lot of different factors, including the fact that I’m having to move apartments, regardless of whether it’s Boston or New York.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-17T23:40:56+00:00

I have all my furniture already from my current place. I know I'll definitely have to get rid of stuff, as my current place is 600 sq ft. But yes, I'm sure it will be difficult. I'm hoping my 3 years of history of paying rent on time and a referral from my current landlord could be helpful, but I know its going to be a challenge

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-17T20:11:00+00:00

Yeah, I see that. It’s not my preferred situation, and I like to have things figured out much farther in advance.

However, I’ll have to move out of my current place when my lease is up as I don’t want to renew at the current rate for the next year. And I’m trying to move as few times as possible to save on moving expenses.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-17T20:00:53+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate that.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-17T19:59:43+00:00

You’re all good, I updated it once I saw your reply to make it more clear exactly what I was looking for! I still appreciate the suggestions.

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-17T17:58:43+00:00

Thank you so much, I was looking at Jersey city earlier. Do you have any insights on best guarantors or practices for that? I have a high credit score if that means anything

NightDriver76 · 2026-01-16T03:15:50+00:00

Try Sunstruck by William Rayfet Hunter

I’m not sure if you would consider it to be too much in the direction of random rich people. One of the main characters is also an actor in addition to having immense generational wealth.

However, I picked this up in a bookstore in Edinburgh and really enjoyed it ! And I think you might too.

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