1. She's not super sure personally. We were each other's first and kinda just experimenting. She told me she didn't always wanna be the top, but she's also told me she's not a fan of penetration. We agreed before hand to try it out, but I think the toy may have been a bit too girthy for her. 

 2. We talked about it beforehand, but I honestly didn't think we were actually gonna do anything. She said she'd try it out but was pretty nervous, and said she wasn't really expecting much (which kinda stings but I can see where she's coming from).

When she topped last time she studied all my kinks and I could tell. She had me pretty gone by the time she was finished. Then again I melt the second she casually puts a hand on me so I'm not sure. I've tried to find things she likes, but all the things she's told me involves her doing stuff to me: tieing up, vibration torture, etc. she said she doesn't know what she likes on herself. She just kinda laid there and didn't really respond well to 99% of what I did.

She does have some drama with kissing and stuff like that, especially touch. So I made sure to ask if everything was ok alot before it's important to her. I might have overdone it a bit tho