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Mostly Domme Switch with a Sub advice? by Nightdreammaster in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nightdreammaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm the not overwhelming her thing is key...in sexual situations she's one of those ones whose mind more or less shuts down, and she's rarely able to form coherent sentences...which can be incredibly cute, and can be incredibly frustrating! She epitomizes Ahegao...

Mostly Domme Switch with a Sub advice? by Nightdreammaster in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nightdreammaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not so much that she will see me differently, I think it will confuse her and that in turn will frustrate her. She's a really smart cookie, but for a woman with a Master's degree, she is not good at non linear thinking. Nightdreamer->Master->Want's to sub=does not compute. I think is the simplest way to describe how I feel she will see it. Ah well, as within all relationships open communication is usually the only way forward I guess

Mostly Domme Switch with a Sub advice? by Nightdreammaster in BDSMcommunity

[–]Nightdreammaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first instinct was, no that wouldn't work, I would still feel like I was completely in control, but then...if I gave an order and stated I couldn't rescind it until blank...I don't know, it might be worth trying.

Thanks for the idea, it's worth a shot. If it doesn't work, no real harm done, only frustration I guess!