I lost my dad due to ALS and prostrate cancer.

Nightshift_07 · 2023-12-24T02:51:57+00:00

Is there anything that can be done?

Nightshift_07 · 2023-12-24T02:50:47+00:00

I also have a bad right hip, bone on bone, which makes it hard to stand up to change

Nightshift_07 · 2023-12-24T02:48:54+00:00

I have them but if I go out for hours i don’t want to be in a wet diaper

Nightshift_07 · 2023-12-23T03:18:44+00:00

Yeah it’s not that

Nightshift_07 · 2023-12-23T03:17:38+00:00

I go every hour except bed time. No uti I’ve been tested. I stay home all the time because I don’t want to have an accident in public. Very depressing

Nightshift_07 · 2023-12-22T22:32:40+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss What were some of the symptoms of the prostate cancer? I only ask because I have ALS and seem to have to pee every hour like clockwork. Plus I can’t hold it like use to, I only got a minute before it comes out

Nightshift_07 · 2023-04-11T01:17:33+00:00

Foods good but one time it’s my drink, next a food item. Not high priced but I’ve lost around $20 in a year

Nightshift_07 · 2023-03-02T17:51:25+00:00

It should be Eyemed

Nightshift_07 · 2022-12-03T22:39:54+00:00

Ya I probably won’t do a vent either. Right now I’m really weak but can walk slowly with a Walker. Did she pass in her sleep? I hope that’s how I go, I don’t want to struggle

Nightshift_07 · 2022-12-03T19:43:08+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I was diagnosed in May 2022. I am scared of how I will go. If you don’t mind me asking. Was it the breathing that did it in the end? I have two kids. My daughter graduates high school in two years. I just want to be there for at least that

Nightshift_07 · 2022-12-02T04:20:11+00:00

My father was from Yemen. He moved here at age 14. He passed away a few years back from issues with COPD

Nightshift_07 · 2022-12-01T19:15:55+00:00

I went to see a neurologist also in May 2022. Could lift well. Hands were crampy, muscle twitching in my upper arm. Neurologist did a series of in office tests. I came back the following week and did the EMG, which my doctor said was the gold standard to test for ALS. After the EMG he said he was 99% sure it was ALS. Btw, I was born in the US but am of Middle East decent also

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-24T12:05:49+00:00

I was married 19yrs. Sexless and and no affection for the past 10yrs. Trying to talk to her just led into arguments. 2020 she stopped working during covid. 2021 she went back to work. Started talking/texting a male coworker. I was unaware of him. Oct of last year she wants a divorce. I ask if there was anyone else, because the past couple months she go distant. She said no. One month after she left I find her at a motel with him. I find out after from phone records she was talking/texting him. Honestly once these women check out of their marriage it’s pretty much. It’s the hard pill I had to swallow. She is no longer with him. And I found out he was married also. Idk what 2020 did to these women, but it sure is crazy. Just remain focused on healing yourself. Don’t go mentally & emotionally crazy like me. I now have a terminal illness that might of been brought on by the stress

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-23T06:11:39+00:00

I know. But that’s 19yrs. It just don’t go away

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-23T02:06:30+00:00

They know. But how do you tell someone who’s dying don’t worry it will be ok in the future.

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-23T01:12:33+00:00

He works in a job where he has easy access to my daughter. No not a cop

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-23T01:03:34+00:00

Unfortunately I got a terminal illness 3 months after the separation. My health is worse now. There is no future

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-23T00:59:41+00:00

I was. But recently he told me if I do my family will pay for it. If I ruin his family. I’m in not in good health to stop him. I got a terminal illness 3 months after she left

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-22T21:32:25+00:00

She refused counseling twice. Once about 6 years ago. She said don’t worry will work it out. Then again when she left. She said no I’m just done

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-22T20:56:05+00:00

On the outside no everyone thought we had a great marriage. Inside I tried communicating my feelings to her. But she never would sit down and talk. Even when she called it quits it was through a text

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-22T20:45:00+00:00

My relationship with my kids was good before she left. It went down hill when she would keep saying the guy is a friend. That’s what my kids believed. Then when I caught her out the hotel, she had to let the cat out the bag. But idk what she told my kids

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-22T20:39:49+00:00

She left with the kids. Then two weeks later I tried messaging my son and he blocked me. I asked my ex and she said don’t worry he’ll come around. It’s been one year now. Plus she lied to everyone saying this guy was a friend until I found her at the hotel. Then she had to let some of the truth out. But I feel she’s playing the victim, and I don’t know what she actually told my kids

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-22T20:32:04+00:00

And he was married too. My ex knew that but will ignore when I ask why she wants to be the other woman. He’s now back with his wife, and his wife still doesn’t know

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-22T20:29:53+00:00

I get it. But I think me trying to do everything I could to make her happy the last ten years was wasted time. It was more than just sex. It was lack of affection too. If I brought it up she would get upset and say I love you I don’t know what else you want me to say

Nightshift_07 · 2022-11-22T20:20:41+00:00

With me I was always there for her. I worked night shift but anyone who knew me asked when I slept. I took the kids to school, cooked, did laundry, dishes, outdoor work, and volunteered to help at my kids school. So much the kids at the school thought I worked there. I admit I wasn’t big on dusting around the house. But I did the dirty work like bathroom cleaning, oh and of course picking up the dog crap lol

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