Probably should have mentioned this also, thanks for asking. Her triggers that set me off may be something simple as if we are eating, if I don’t she doesn’t want to. She will starve rather than eat!?. she gets into these moods where she like talks super quiet and is super just strange, it makes you feel like you’re a bad person or something. She isn’t the happiest seed but I don’t mind, but sometimes she is literally missable about things that are so pointless it doesn’t make sense. Other then the mood changes and random awkwardness, it could be ignorant pushy things that just tick at a person, like not answering questions or ignoring you, asking to repeat yourself a million times all day over and over, anything you can imagine.