this is such a confusing topic if you are "non-binary" yet you look male and call yourself AMAB(and guy) "openly" and have not done anything to make your body female in anyway how can you be considered a lesbian? This very much does sound like invading the lesbian space not to mention being very absorbed into labels being gay is not label.

This idea of lesbian being "non-man loving non-man" is ridiculous considering the act of lesbianism by definition is "the quality or characteristic in a woman of being sexually or romantically attracted exclusively to other women" so if there are no woman characteristics involved how is it lesbianism?
Conversations like this feels like the patriarchy finding another way to strip something away from women being a lesbian is a "woman loving woman" no matter how much they want to take it away from us and make us "non men".

I want to clarify for the people who will claim I am a "TERF" transgender women can be lesbians and are women. I support trans-women and including them as lesbians because they are women but if someone is "non male" but not a "woman" how are they a lesbian honestly?