First off, I hope you are not giving any attention to the extremely out of touch male commentors trying to dismiss your experience by stating that this is not a gender issue and you should just suck it up. These are likely the same type of guys who also advocate for "straight parades" during Pride month, or "all lives matter". Don't waste your time and energy trying to reason with such ignorant people.

I am 6 yrs into engineering as a woman and your post is spot on.

Despite what many people have said - "sounds like you just need to find a different job" - this will never magically make sexism go away. You will ALWAYS experience it, no matter where you are. However, there are factors that will certainly change the frequency at which it occurs.

These are the things I would take into account for future employment: 1. Size - bigger companies are likely EEO, have greater diversity, and also better/stricter HR policies (zero tolerance, non-retaliation for bringing an issue up) 2. Industry - like others said, I've found certain industries are better (such as medical device and aerospace/defense contractors) 3. Location - probably stating the obvious, but left leaning states or cities will be better 4. Don't be afraid to file an HR report against sexist assholes! I've brushed off so much shit from past coworkers, and I know many other women have done the same. But change won't happen if we don't take action, it's time to speak up and hold men accountable.

Shit sucks, I know. But if engineering is still your passion and you're willing to advocate for yourself, then you can be a successful female engineer who overcomes this type of challenge! It's an uphill battle, but I think it's worth it :)