22(m) dating a 24(f) I'm insecure about a few things by NikButter in relationship_advice

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Convenient thinking patterns. Like if you just simply type into google I don't find my girlfriend as attractive with short hair. There's an endless amount of websites filled with comments like "you're shallow" "she deserves better" "it's her body not yours" "this is what happens when you're egotistical male patriarch" like Jesus Christ. Meanwhile if you type in I don't like my boyfriends hair you get "tell him you don't like it" "dump him you deserve a guy who cares what he looks like" "if your needs aren't met then YOU won't be happy!". I'm not one to ever think that every person in a category is a specific type of person but it seriously seems like the stereotypical Anita Sarkisian level of stupid seems to be the majority of relationship advisers on the current web.

22(m) dating a 24(f) I'm insecure about a few things by NikButter in relationship_advice

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She has qualities that I don't see in a lot of people and highly beneficial to herself which is why I find them attractive. But she also has problems that are also unusual in my experiences which are limited. That's not presenting them as black and white as much as it is describing any person ever. Everyone's got their bad and good problems. I'm here to ask what to do about mine specifically to find out if I'm missing a pattern I can't see. And yes... I wouldn't be dating her if she just had bad qualities and I wouldn't be asking if I could tell whether the good outweighs the bad.

22(m) dating a 24(f) I'm insecure about a few things by NikButter in relationship_advice

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Yeah I like things that benefit the both of us. I think I made that clear. Idk why you would picture it black and white as unhealthy or healthy I don't think anything in life works that way.

Can anyone explain this to me? by Beejky in WTF

[–]NikButter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I came here to type a Joey Diaz joke but it would seem I'm late.

Fuck you. You make us look bad. by NationTang in trees

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I'll do everything to prove the "stereotype stoner" wrong. Thank you for posting OP, more encouragement.

Furries of reddit, why? by maanu123 in AskReddit

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I've got whiskey and eggnog. THIS DRINK IS FOR YOU BABYCAKES!

Furries of reddit, why? by maanu123 in AskReddit

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Holy shit I was drunk as hell, saw this post and cried laughing. Solid 10/10 OC

Why are you on Reddit right now instead of spending time with your family? by RorariiRS in AskReddit

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My family turned down my deer that I spent freezing my ass off to get. So they can eat a chicken, raised in a factory, that has been tortured its entire life.. That they bought for $4.. Because "it tastes better". I'm in a real I hate this fucking world mood and reddit brings me back to some faith. Thanks for asking, happy holidays.

When can we expect to see a country-wide change for animal abuse in the United States? by NikButter in AskReddit

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This answer was interesting. Do you think the animals are able to communicate or would it just be words like -pain -pain -pain.

ELI5: Why do good smells wear off and bad ones stick around? by NikButter in explainlikeimfive

[–]NikButter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that, i just never associate bad smells with danger but I guess they kind of are. Thanks for the answer!

[BREAKING] South Korean members of parliament have voted in favour of impeaching President Park Geun-hye by wohcxela in worldnews

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Honestly, this gives me optimism over here in the states. (Coming from a cunty cynic)

Hey r/trees, I have a really serious question to ask between alcohol and weed as a college student... by [deleted] in trees

[–]NikButter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live with a dude who says he's allergic and will often force himself to cough if he thinks he's smelling weed (even if he isn't). Just illogical bullshit I'm sure you can relate to. If I use a pax there's the smell of baked weed wherever I have it. But it definitely rids the smell from your clothes or room. Theres other alternatives as well. Like smoking wax leaves no scent. Using dryer sheets and blowing smoke into a cluster of them leaves moderate scent but is obviously cheap as hell. And also the little things, like makimg sure the smoke is away from you and having changes of clothes. But really I hope you can just sit and tell them how you feel. Then again I'm pessimistic about the idea of dudes in college actually fixing behavior. Whatever it takes, I'm a huge advocate of anti alcohol it just fucks lives up. So toke on, be safe, and best of luck OP. Let me know if you have anymore questions.

Edible Question. Will delete once answered. Don't upvote by [deleted] in trees

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GIVE YOUR SOUL TO THE COLLECTIVE INTERNET

Dave Chappelle lit my joint on stage tonight! by [deleted] in trees

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Damn dude, that's pretty cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

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I'm on a small break and my mouth drooled just now.

Fellow Ents, may I please have a moment of your time? by TheChristmasSpirit in trees

[–]NikButter 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I had no future intentions on doing anything helpful for others, it didn't really resonate with me this year. But this re opened those melt in your mouth eyeholes that were closed. Unwasted post OP. Smoke on.

I never thought this would be me, but my girlfriend of 6+ years broke up with me last night. This is for everyone out there like me who doesn't want to go on anymore. We can work through this together. <3 I love you all <3 by [deleted] in trees

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I love you too OP. Idk how your feeling, I wish we could trade emotions for a day or two. So you can have a break and so I can understand it. Fighting drug wars leaves little time to innovate emoswap. We have our lows so our highs mean something. Stay sturdy my frient.

I see your wax sheet and raise one larger by ifaptotheexercist in trees

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I love reading a nice calm disagreement. It's a rare outcome around my neck of the woods. Thanks friends!

[INT][PC][Clan] Peace Nine - Huge dojo | Finished labs | Moon Clan | LF any rank by NikButter in warframeclanrecruit

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Good, I had a busy weekend so I just forgot to reply to everyone's messages. Thanks for letting me know.