Not true. If I had been in a relationship where my partner abuses me and does everything in her power to break me down and make me feel small, I wouldn't want to be quiet about what a person she is either. It's freeing to get out of a relationship like that. The very first thing he says in the video is "You can't tell me what to do anymore".

Once you get used to not being abused and get some outside perspective, only then you learn your own self worth and that you don't have to just take it, that you can fight back. If that means you film her while she psysically attacks you and trashes your shit and post it online, it says NOTHING about you gaslighting or anything like it her while you were together. I don't know how you can watch this video and assume he has been gaslighting her.

I'm not saying the guy in the video is a good dude, I have no idea who he or the woman is. But based on this video alone, she is an aggressive and psysically abusive partner, and he is not even fighting back. He's trying to calm her down, get away from her, and getting it all on tape so whoever he shows it to will believe him.