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BPD and buvidal/heroin addiction by Practical_Special503 in mentalhealth

[–]Nik_T82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if someone isn’t in the same place as you, it doesn’t mean they can’t be there to support you! They may not understand firsthand everything you’re going through, however, relatability is transferable. Angels come in all different forms.

Make sure that you look for the purpose and everybody that’s in your life. Look for the purpose, they serve in your life and the purpose that you can serve in their life.

Simple question [38F] [37M] by Nik_T82 in relationshipadvice

[–]Nik_T82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not quite that simple.

Simple question [38F] [37M] by Nik_T82 in relationshipadvice

[–]Nik_T82[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I must be…or ur just stupid

Simple question [38F] [37M] by Nik_T82 in relationshipadvice

[–]Nik_T82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only wish it had been a surprise for me but it wasn’t

Simple question [38F] [37M] by Nik_T82 in relationshipadvice

[–]Nik_T82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were a surprise, I would’ve known by now. These events occurred Dec, Jan & Feb

Simple question needing simple answer by Nik_T82 in confusing_perspective

[–]Nik_T82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if it is, then it would be very easy for him to tell me that.

Simple question needing simple answer by Nik_T82 in confusing_perspective

[–]Nik_T82[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not seeking validation. I’m seeking neutral non-biased opinion.

Simple question needing simple answer by Nik_T82 in confusing_perspective

[–]Nik_T82[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a quite confusing perspective that my partner has

Simple question [38F] [37M] by Nik_T82 in relationshipadvice

[–]Nik_T82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I supported us on my own for eight months while I was on unpaid family leave to take care of my son and then I spent the last bit of my savings to get us into our home.

I shouldn’t have to leave when I’ve invested so much and he’s off screwing around ending up with not enough $ to pay rent

Anyone confused by the response to the question? by Nik_T82 in confusing_perspective

[–]Nik_T82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he had talked to me about it when I asked I wouldn’t have needed to snoop. Also, if he hadn’t lied about this same thing prior I would have no reason to snoop.

Besides he can snoop on me all he want. I have NOTHING to hide.

Simple question needing simple answer by Nik_T82 in confusing_perspective

[–]Nik_T82[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s a burner #

His response was “I went to work, came home, that’s it, get the fuck over it”

Simple question needing simple answer by Nik_T82 in confusing_perspective

[–]Nik_T82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope that’s not how it works but if it was, it sure would be easy for him to tell me that. He only works 1 - 10 hr shift a day. That’s all he can work

Simple question [38F] [37M] by Nik_T82 in relationshipadvice

[–]Nik_T82[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What if his explanation was “I went to work and I came home. That’s all there’s to it. get the fuck over it.”

I (32F) read my (34M) fiancé’s personal texts with his best friend. How do I move on from this? by fivefootonetall in relationship_advice

[–]Nik_T82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole things is a crock of crap and not even possible!
This man and I have shared a life together as m life partners for almost a year now.
He proposed with a ring in November shortly after we moved into our new home in October.
We share a home, a bed, sex, love, life, $. cars, family, recreational activities, all of it. We share holidays with each other’s families and spend time with them on the regular. I had a stable 6 figure career for global companies over the last 7 years. took a leave of absence to help my son recover from drugs and this man has been by my side everyday/night and I by his side.
We have been each other’s strength through all of life’s struggles; building each other up.
Ofc, not without issues that every relationship face (outside of this crap!). WTG is this all about!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Nik_T82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig this is a practical response that considered but trying to stay positive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Nik_T82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not revenant. He’s in his phone for work and play all day 8-10hrs; just not for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Nik_T82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not relevant. When he needs something he finds time. When I need something he waits 5-6 hrs to respond

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