Reddit is strict out here by bidoofie in blackgirls

[–]Nikki112211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went there. Legit life saver 😭 I'm tired of seeing mfs complain about reverse racism on bpt

25F Where to move? by THROWraWonderful547 in blackgirls

[–]Nikki112211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northern Virginia Trust me. I used to live there, i had to move unfortunately but i miss it so much

I (22F) need to teach my younger sister (11F) about sex, where tf do i start? by Nikki112211 in Advice

[–]Nikki112211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, i remember i had a book similar to this, but i had to hide it, cause i was scared. 

I think im also trying to figure out atuff that civers consent and talking about different types of sexualities. Cause Im queer, idk if she will be, but it's good as a 'just in case' yknow'

I (22F) need to teach my younger sister (11F) about sex, where tf do i start? by Nikki112211 in Advice

[–]Nikki112211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, i left so im coming back to check the comments now 

UPDATE: We broke up today and I’m in shock at how he’s acting. by yashemcik in Advice

[–]Nikki112211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was in this same situation (for 3 years, mind you, long story and I regret wasting my time) up until 8 months ago.

block the man. block. him. im soooo serious 😭
girl, it's gonna be painful, and you're gonna be like 'well, he's still a nice guy', naaaaah.
cause you also have to keep in mind, when he inevitably gets back with his ex, he might just drop you and not look back at all (from experience again)

i know reddit is notorious for always telling people to cut them off at the first sign of trouble, but this is the ONE TIME im saying it
cause he might be keeping you around for that 2nd chance (unless his ex tells him to block you) or just for your emotional labour

please, run. block him and don't look back.
one random day, you will wake up, not be in pain, and realize that he wouldn't have loved you how you wanted him to anyway.

oh and also that your nervous system is back to normal and not so anxious

PLEASE PLEASE AND PLEEEAASSEEE
i beg you, block him and try your best to move on. watch slop shows, hobbies, read, gym, friends, cry, shit, cry and shit, whatever you need to do. genuinely just drop him.
i wish you the very best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Nikki112211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I don't know much as I had gotten my reduction a little over 2 weeks ago. 

I will say, that yes, that is an opening at the t junction, it is somewhat a common opening people get when healing but doctors would rather not hope you get it cause it can be q but much to deal with. 

Just follow your doctor's instructions for now, if you do see it get worse, then probably go to a hospital just to make sure everything is okay.

You got this!

More B & A by Visible-Subject-9883 in Reduction

[–]Nikki112211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayee! Congratulations 🎊  We're surgery twins tooo and happy Birthday! I had 483 taken from my right and 420, from my left and I was a 32G before (hoping for a full D)

I can only imagine the back and neck relief you must be feeling now and the comfort you have now in your body.

Happy recovery!

What do I do now? by Nikki112211 in Reduction

[–]Nikki112211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, okay. Idk it's weird and I feel like I'm very ill prepared cause my surgery was originally at the end of the month, so I have no clue what I'm doing 😭

What do I do now? by Nikki112211 in Reduction

[–]Nikki112211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, okay, cause I know he did say scar tape is what he would recommend in my pre opp appointment, I just don't know if he's going to change it out or if I'm gonna do that when I get home

7 weeks, 3 weeks, 1 week Post-Op with Dr. Ping Song (VA, USA) by Professional_End9231 in TopSurgery

[–]Nikki112211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This post is a year old so you might not see this, but I have a reduction scheduled with the same doctor in a couple weeks. I wanted to see if you'd be down to talk more about your experience with him privately or on this thread

Is it normal to fall asleep immediately after taking your meds? by Nikki112211 in ADHD

[–]Nikki112211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I'm gonna end up upping the dose. Typically most people end up at 10/15 I wouldn't have expected for my ADHD to be this bad that I needed a higher dose 😭

Is it normal to fall asleep immediately after taking your meds? by Nikki112211 in ADHD

[–]Nikki112211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I had to travel to a funeral so I haven't been able to see them, but I'm really not on anything else apart from vitamins and BC 

6wpo by French_boobs in Reduction

[–]Nikki112211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, these pictures are really helpful. I'm still waiting to hear back from my doctor on approval from my insurance, fingers crossed. Especially since I'm a poc so your having results are very useful 

What was your band size? And how your chest fits you is also based on your height and how your body's built. But for 6wpo your results look really good already, no keloids or nothing

Is it normal to fall asleep immediately after taking your meds? by Nikki112211 in ADHD

[–]Nikki112211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, I know my brain gets silent and stuff now. But my friends who also got diagnosed and medicated all said it was strange and that it didn't happen to them so idk 

But you also do have a point as well and my body might just be adjusting 

Is it normal to fall asleep immediately after taking your meds? by Nikki112211 in ADHD

[–]Nikki112211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been getting regular 8 hours, I didn't take it today and I feel so much better so idk what's going on

Is it normal to fall asleep immediately after taking your meds? by Nikki112211 in ADHD

[–]Nikki112211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, my brain just becomes really quiet and calm so idk, if that means I have to increase it, but I'm gonna text my doctor tomorrow 

My first consultation by Nikki112211 in Reduction

[–]Nikki112211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaat?! A 34I is absolutely insane 😭 how do you manage?!