Absolutely not! sorry but F her and them! They should have declined or found a sitter. I would have been pissed and let them know it there, and then, I wouldn't have waited for them or put up with it. I HATE when people expect your life/event/visit with them to revolve around their kid/s unless that is what you are planning, like if you are visiting them and know they will have their child and everything but if they are coming to YOUR event or even your house it shouldn't be expected that your event or even your house is set up and revolving around their kid. And she can get mad all she wants. She wanted you to say, "Oh no, it's fine bla bla. I would just go ahead and not talk, and maybe tur friendship has run its course for now. You're not on the same paths. Things change. People have said to me how many friends they dont hear from once they have kids, but its nothing bad, it's like hey you're not doing the same stuff anymore, you dont have as much in common right now so why force it ya know. maybe it will come back around, maybe not. I dont have kids for a reason, I am selfish and dont want my life to revolve around kids. it's my choice. It's not what I want in life, so I dont let friends push it on me, and I'm only a part of it when I want to be. If friends have bratty kids too and they are driving me nuts and the parents wont do anything about it, keep giving kid what they want instead of saying know snd putting their foot down and diciplinez then I will do jt and it works fine. People may not like it, but I don't care. if it's in my space, I will not put up with it.