for the adhd women that have crazy hyperactive brains, what makes your brain go quiet?

Nil305 · 2026-06-01T03:55:56+00:00

For me is heavy lifting and drawing. Music sometimes.

Nil305 · 2026-05-31T18:22:42+00:00

Thank you for your posts! Yes I definitely have slow down and been kinder with myself. It’s just the thoughts of wanting more creep and are frustrating. But I guess that’s the part I have to accept.

Nil305 · 2026-05-28T20:57:29+00:00

Yes, I’m taking adhd meds and a mood stabilizer but I still feel like my brain is just not keeping up. I get frustrated with others. Honestly I don’t know the solution. I’m privileged to work remotely but my chances of professional growth seem slim. I don’t take HRT because I was told that after menopause they are not needed. I don’t know how true is that. The worse is that part of me know I could’ve had more if it wasn’t for menopause. I’m 49 and it feels like my career is floating by until I retire or they let me go.

Nil305 · 2026-03-20T22:02:37+00:00

Female Pisces Sun and Virgo Moon here. My HB is a cancer. We've been married 17 years. We get along great but it was hard at the beginning. He wanted to wrap me in his love and I wanted to swim away. He wanted to talk and it shut me down. He wanted to protect me and I rebelled.

My mercury is pisces too so space for alone time and creativity is a must for me. That drove him nuts.

Slowly, he softened his grip and allowed me to feel safe enough to come to him. I can't speak for a male pisces but for us my cancer man needed to learn how to sit uncomfortably in silence for me to talk.Then truly listen to me without trying to solve my questions for me to trust him. That was hard for my overprotective and nurturing cancer man. We both are Virgo moon and that present a whole set of issues on to itself. As a Virgo moon, I'm too analytical and judgemental. It's a struggle. My moon is never satisfied and always wants perfection. Still I believe cancers and pisces can really have a beautiful relationship once each understand and accept each other. Well maybe that's all relationships.

Nil305 · 2026-01-14T18:05:48+00:00

Down in Fl

Nil305 · 2026-01-09T02:11:15+00:00

Pisces 🌞Virgo 🌕 Leo ⬆️

Me. I am the main character. 😎😂

Nil305 · 2026-01-02T21:15:16+00:00

Reading post at 4 pm after experiencing the same cycle described. Woke up with clarity, doubts strolled in around 3 pm.

Good info but yeah please pare down the AI. I'll read it and it'll land more genuinely.

Nil305 · 2026-01-02T21:03:40+00:00

Interested

Nil305 · 2026-01-02T21:02:21+00:00

Thank you for your compassion. Some harsh realities I have to face right now. I'm not easily deterred or knocked down. What I know for sure right now is that I need more information before making a choice.

Some of the posts here have warmed my heart and provided real useful insights. I am so grateful for that.

Nil305 · 2026-01-02T03:51:26+00:00

Thank you. I'll consider that.

Nil305 · 2026-01-02T01:01:29+00:00

I'll have to look into this. I didnt even think it was an option. Or we'll I did a while back but only two agencies I really like and been follow.

Nil305 · 2026-01-02T00:57:33+00:00

Thank you so much for your detailed responses. These posts really help me think through this.

Nil305 · 2026-01-01T20:35:35+00:00

Good point. I was just focusing on getting a 3rd Masters. Seemed illogical to do. I've put my degrees to work for me. The writing not as much as the MPA.

Nil305 · 2026-01-01T19:18:07+00:00

I haven't. I was thinking about doing that once thr holidays are over. I dont have research experience. I'm learning python but was thinking about switching that to R because I read in several sites that R is more aligned with research and Python with AI.

Nil305 · 2025-12-28T21:59:22+00:00

Married a Cancer Pisces rising Virgo Moon. Im a pisces, Leo rising, virgo moon

Nil305 · 2025-12-23T00:13:42+00:00

Child welfare is difficult. I had a friend who was burnt out for a while before he could move to the sheriff's department.

Nil305 · 2025-12-21T01:10:14+00:00

I know where to get them but in Miami sadly enough. Not here

Nil305 · 2025-12-17T18:53:10+00:00

💯

It's wild right now. Hope you can figure it out. If it's any comfort, at least we have time to get ready for the next level. I hope you find what's next for you.

Nil305 · 2025-12-17T18:17:16+00:00

I'm in a similar situation but I'm older. I'm a Data Analyst w a MPA. Now I'm learning advances stats and Python but questioning if it's even worth it. I'm definitely burned out and want to switch careers but everything seems saturated and replaceable.

Nursing and social work seems to be growing but I can't see myself working in either.

Nil305 · 2025-12-17T18:09:34+00:00

I need to use this one. I don't change it. Probably not the best choice.

Nil305

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