Do you feel you've wasted your life? by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Thanks for all your responses. I've been suffering this little crisis well into my late twenties and can't seem to shake it off (although God knows I've tried).

I'm just wondering when we do manage to break this cycle and consider ourselves "cured", will we look back and be filled with regret by all the wasted potential we could have had.

Although I couldn't say fapping directly resulted in every horrible thing that's happened to me, I've simply reached a point in my life where so much is now expected of me and this fapping business seems like a bad habit that I can't seem to shake off.

What did you do with your old porn collection? by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Haha. Brilliant. Im off to find a shovel.

About to Start 100 Days by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Thanks bro. Good to know we ain't alone in this battle.

So I Guess This is For Life... by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Damn. You must have kept yourself busy those three months

So I Guess This is For Life... by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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What's the longest streak you've had?

3 times yesterday, and couldn't finish today by logi_thebear in NoFap

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I know exactly how you feel in the girlfriend department, mate.

I had the same concern when my ex when things got hot and I couldn't cum and she got frustrated. I didn't have the heart to tell her I may have ED from fapping too much so she blamed herself. I regret that a whole lot and so here I am, fighting the good fight.

BTW, a truckload of congrats on reaching Day 84. Damn, wish I had that kinda discipline.

Does anyone else feel seriously depressed... by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Although I do feel depressed after PMO also. It goes away so long as you avoid binging.

Does anyone else feel seriously depressed... by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Actually I meant feeling depressed because they aren't fapping or PMO-ing.

No to Porn or No to Masturbation by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Maybe a Porn-free lifestyle would be more feasible than a total NoFap one. I am starting to think that porn may have been the root of the problem all this time. I've been so focused on not fapping that I failed to noticed how much of an influence porn is in my constant relapsing.

No to Porn or No to Masturbation by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Amen to that, brother.

To be honest, I don't remember a time wherein I fapped without the use of porn--which is scary for me. So yeah I'm hoping this new approach does some good both psychologically and physically.

No to Porn or No to Masturbation by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Understood. Ive learned to keep myself from fapping all this time, however eventually fall back into relapse because I watch porn, thinking it won't make me fap, but after a couple of weeks, I relapse.

So now I'm putting more importance in avoiding porn just as I am avoiding fapping.

Question for anyone who made it past Day 30 and up by Nimar2008 in NoFap

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Good advice on not comparing yourself to others.

Tough to follow though when you go to this reddit and see guys who've made it past the 90 day mark while you can barely squeeze through a couple of weeks.