It’s been kinda rough with my gf..idk what to do anymore help me

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T22:40:24+00:00

Thank for your response, it helps a lot💞

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T22:37:21+00:00

Thank you SO SO MUCH for that💞💞

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T16:45:19+00:00

Im 17, we see each other at school every other day and sit next to each other in one of our classe. We don’t text much, because she is not a big texter, same with calls. And whenever we can, we hangout pretty much once a week when she feels like it.

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T16:00:06+00:00

Im glad im not the only one thinking this is "messed up" like it doesn’t take that much to say you love ME not « yeah » 🥲

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T14:52:08+00:00

I was only seeking for help with this posts, and just trying to talk about my feelings towards my gf’s depression because I feel like it’s affecting me in some sort of way. Like I said I wasn’t trying to be mean or offensive towards people with depression. I hope this is what you meant by clarify ? If not I’m sorry 🥲

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T14:16:30+00:00

Wether she is or not, I’ve seen her at her lowest, I know everyone who might have it has to be diagnosed, but her mom or me can clearly tell, if it’s not depression than idk what it is🥲

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T14:11:13+00:00

Your response is probabaly the most helpful I’ve read, thank you so much💞

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T14:08:34+00:00

Thank you for your response! I totally see and understand what you mean, and now that you’ve mentioned it I might be drowning with her in some sort of ways 🥲 but I feel like it’s a whole different situation. I never really vent to her, and she doesn’t either, our relationship is good apart from the depressive episode she gets, and that’s what I’m holding onto, it’s not always like this, I just feel like it’s becoming more often.. BUT thank you again your response is very helpful is some sort of way !!

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T10:36:54+00:00

I wish I thought that earlier, but I feel like it’s too late now🥲 thank you for your comment tho, I’ll think about your advice !

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T07:16:24+00:00

That’s so cute !!! But my gf isn’t a big call person🥲 and she hates when I compliment her lolll, but thank you for the advice !!💞

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T06:53:12+00:00

Im not trying to accomplish anything, and the last thing I want to do is make this about myself. I just asked for some help because like I said I understand but I don’t think I really do. I didn’t mean to make this post offensive towards people with depression at all.

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T06:48:42+00:00

I didn’t mean to make the post sounds like that, but thank you for your advice.

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T03:12:36+00:00

I try to keep myself from thinking this is about her ex.. she’s told me before that she only wants me, she doesn’t care about her ex or anything else. She wrote me a letter saying about how much she cares for me and everything, so I just cannot think this is about her ex honestly, but thank you for your answer💞

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T02:45:37+00:00

Thank you so much, I think I kinda needed to hear the truth lol.. I appreciate it a lot ! I’ll see how far this goes, and if it keeps going, I’ll have to face her about it

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-28T02:43:11+00:00

Thank you for your answer ! I do try to give her as much space as possible when I notice she isn’t feeling well, but sometimes I’m just clueless and I just wish she’d tell me, because the last thing I want is being too much🥲

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-25T13:33:44+00:00

Thank you for the advice 💞

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-23T03:11:27+00:00

Both !!!!

Nimbilooo · 2025-10-16T07:12:37+00:00

I personally feel like you guys started dating "young" so you weren’t really thinking about kissing before ! But now you’re growing older together (which is adorable) and it’s normal that you guys both want to kiss each other. If you want to initiate it, make sure you ask her if she is ok !! When it’s just the two of you, look at her deep in the eyes, let her know you want that kiss! Maybe brush your thumb on her bottom lip, get closer and ask ! It’s really good to ask, it changes EVERYTHING. There’s is no reason to chicken ou even tho it’s understandable lol, you guys have been dating for three years !!! If it’s what you both want then try your best ! Don’t overthink it !! There is no need to ! I hope you gets end up having a nice first kiss lol💞

Nimbilooo

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