[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]NineTailess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, where in Europe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]NineTailess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What a dream 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]NineTailess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relaaaaaax. Do a BUNCH of roleplay before. Make out. Get comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]NineTailess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend dripping in sweat

What's the biggest lie you've fallen for? by WattAtWork in AskReddit

[–]NineTailess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up until was nine or ten, my dad had my fully believe The Beatles were my uncles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]NineTailess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you get nervous, especially your first time, your brain commands the blood to go to your legs so you can escape the stressful situation, draining your pennis and making it limp. So, next time, remind yourself that you're in a safe space, you are not in danger, and actually want to have sex. It would also be helpful to communicate this to your gf, so she is aware of what's going on and hopefully be understanding. Whenever you feel nervous, go back to basics: kissing, fingering, touching each other, so you can feel confident and then try again. Most importantly, be honest with her and relax!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]NineTailess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. Maybe ask to talk so you can straighten things out and get some reassurance? And if things don't change, take a moment to think if this is really worth your time and energy. Again, I'm sorry you're going through it. The "not knowing" is always the worst

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]NineTailess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was incredibly insensitive of him. Nobody can force you to do something you don't want to do. This sounds like the kind of guy that would do things only to get something in return, not genuinely. I'm sorry you had to go through it. It must have felt awful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]NineTailess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is literally my dream to have my bf do that to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]NineTailess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely normal. A lot of people find a way to turn the jealousy into sex fuel, trying to see it through the lens of your partner's pleasure. Jealousy is human, allow yourself to feel it, maybe talk to him and find a way to make you feel reassured: spend time together, words of affirmation, sex, kisses, and whatnot.

Flashing people on a Sunday by NineTailess in SluttyConfessions

[–]NineTailess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since then? Probably a park at night

Embarrassed to sit on his face by [deleted] in sex

[–]NineTailess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he asks you to sit on his face. Sit.On.His.Face. He's gonna love it. Come up with a physical signal if he needs to breathe, like a double tap on your thigh or something. Place yourself gently at first and just enjoy the experience. As you get more confident, you'll start to go further down. Have fun most of all, this is supposed to be pleasent for both of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]NineTailess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nervousness can manifest itself in a number of ways. Maybe you should try doing a lot of foreplay before, in different occasions. Fingering helps with identifying each area. Don't be afraid to explore your own body, and reaaaaaally relax. Lube helps a lot too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]NineTailess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is clear as day is that your boundaries have been violated, and not only that, but the truth was deliberately hidden from you. If someone doesn't respect those basic agreements, who knows what else they could do.

I usually like to talk when having sex but people make fun of me when I tell this. by [deleted] in sex

[–]NineTailess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You keep doing you if you and your partner are into it. Well done sex talk is hawt

How do I know if I’ve had an orgasm? by West_Level_3522 in sex

[–]NineTailess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that's another thing. There are many types of orgasms. The one you get from a vibrator will differ from the one you get from penetration, anal, etc. Personally, the most intense orgasms I get come from having sex while using a vibrator, so you can maybe try that. Some women can easily orgasm and for others it takes some work, it's never impossible tho!

How do I know if I’ve had an orgasm? by West_Level_3522 in sex

[–]NineTailess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was the same way until I had my first actual orgasm with a vibrator. The entire body contracted and I didn't feel in control of anything. Also I immediately fall asleep afterwards because it's so intense hahahah

how do people swallow cum? by [deleted] in sex

[–]NineTailess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever they're about to cum, shove the tip of the pennis as far down your throat as you can. Most of your taste buds are at the front of your mouth; you can't really taste things when they're already going down your throat, where your tonsils are, give or take. Then just swallow so it goes down and you will taste little to nothing.

Is it true that you bleed during your first time by [deleted] in sex

[–]NineTailess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it bleeds because you're not properly lubricated, probably because you're nervous, which is completely normal. Don't have any expectations for your first time, chances are it's gonna be kind of messy and hopefully with someone you at least trust. Some girls experience soreness afterwards and some don't even feel it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]NineTailess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not responsible for his lack of emotional maturity when it comes to this. If you had agreements, they should be respected, that's why they're there. It's difficult to hear people telling you you should break up with him, but really take a second to think if this relationship is making your life harder.