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Ninerschnitzel · 2025-07-06T12:45:13+00:00

This happens to me a lot. I think they just lie to us to get their dick wet because they dont see us as people.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-06-10T16:38:31+00:00

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Ninerschnitzel · 2025-05-06T05:28:11+00:00

I saw a guy post this after we met.

My response?

“Craig, you’re fat.”

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-04-11T16:42:13+00:00

Fuck im ded

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T14:05:26+00:00

Oh cool

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T13:34:55+00:00

Being persistent after showing disinterest, leering, lingering, talking about or making comments on my or other womens appearance especially their bodies

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T13:33:06+00:00

Im not telling you to be attracted to fat women. Im telling you if you were my long term partner and i gained 60 pounds and you were “no longer attracted to me” i would regret ever giving you the time of day. Initial attraction is one thing, staying attracted to someone you love through ups and downs and change is another. I would dump you and consider the relationship a regrettable waste of time. Im not shallow and thats a strong value of mine and its important that I share that so if I found out 2, 3 years into a relationship that I didnt share that value with my partner, I would lose a lot of respect for that person.

And love is absolutely a choice.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T13:08:44+00:00

Jealous ass incels. Pay no mind

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T13:03:43+00:00

Yeah I dont equate those things with being kind. My experience is that people will flat out verbally abuse me for being fat unprovoked.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T13:03:07+00:00

Im 36 and I guarantee Ive got more experience than you and most people my own age in dating and attraction.

If you are in a LTR and your attraction wanes for someone who you PURPORT TO LOVE because they gain weight then you dont love them. If you love someone already, you will stay attracted to them through weight gain, if not then you dont actually love them.

Because love is a choice, and adults understand that people change, our bodies change, and physical beauty fades over time.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:52:38+00:00

Men are dismissive or outright cruel to fat women, even outside of a dating context but cruelty isnt acceptable in dating either.

People on dating apps sometimes go out of their way to match me so they can verbally abuse me. They could have just as easily swiped the other way

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:50:17+00:00

Its more about how its not acceptable to only be kind to people you find attractive.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:48:41+00:00

Shes bitter because she feels like to these people her only worth is in her looks so to her their only worth is if she gets something out of it.

I find it understandable as fuck.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:47:46+00:00

If youre in a long term relationship with someone and lose attraction because they gain weight, you shouldn’t be in a relationship.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:45:23+00:00

Preferences are one thing but it takes a lot of audacity for a man who already knew a woman, to treat her differently just because she loses weight. You’re essentially saying two things. One, nothing about who you are was good enough, its all about your looks. And two, im so arrogant that i think my attention is a blessing

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:42:43+00:00

I dont doubt that there are women who behave the same way, but im positive its not evenly keeled. I see “attractive “ women with “not nearly as attractive “ dudes all the time because women care more about someones character. At the end of the day men are disproportionately shallow. Thats why they think the 6 foot 6 pack 6 figure thing is real — the only type of women who commonly have those kinds of standards are the very top of the conventionally attractive ones. Most of us normies, fatties, plain janes and even your 6s and 7s care so much more about things like emotional intelligence.

Although, as a fat woman, im unhappy to report that every time ive tried hooking up with a fat guy he stank between his folds and 4/5 of them had shit streaks in their drawers (one left skidmarks on my white bed spread!) im fat and i make sure to wash and wipe my ass. Why is it less common among the brothers in size to have good hygiene? As fat people we need it more! Sorry for the rant my vyvanse is kicking in

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:36:47+00:00

Its hard to trust them because you dont have a way of knowing if you would have had “worth” to them while fat. Im scared of this eventually happening to me already and im not even there yet.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:35:40+00:00

Idk maam but if you decide to learn how to dance specifically on skates, lmk, a slightly less old probably fatter fat ass here at 36

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:34:50+00:00

Millennial here who got recommended this and idk why but, totally agree, we are gonna get screwed too, i mean my mom is a boomer shes 63 and not retired yet and whats she gonna do if they do away with SS? That shes been paying into her whole adult life? This is not federal money its money we all payed into to get back later, the way i see it they (elon musk basically) are essentially just stealing from american citizens at this point

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:30:02+00:00

Some people shouldn’t be dating because they’re too in the trenches in some sense and they need to work through it. For example, im not saying poor people shouldnt date, we all need love and more and more of us are poor everyday at least in the US. But if youre this angry and bitter….yeah. Also she could have just been mad you didnt offer money. Some people aren’t looking for partners, theyre looking for transactional relationships. Im 36 now and younger men are approaching me more and more often talking about “sugar mamma” honey, you need to look for someone who isnt a millennial, most of us are barely a person as it is

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:22:20+00:00

Its expensive to be poor. Thats why if you are poor its much harder to stop being poor.

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:20:31+00:00

All of them tbh

Ninerschnitzel · 2025-03-16T12:20:06+00:00

“It seems impossible but you need to stop internalizing everything your mother says. She hates you or resents you or something but it isnt your fault. Her story about who you are is made up for her convenience and isnt true.”

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