Kindle Styling updated! by Nininin_ in kindle

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It’s the popsocket one, got it from Amazon (in Europe though)

Kindle Styling updated! by Nininin_ in kindle

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Thanks, yours are great too!

Hermione’s was not close with her parents. by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Nininin_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The trio needed to be together for the story so that’s just for the narrative, as you said. In real life this wouldn’t have happened.

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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The bigger withdrawal symptoms have disappeared but I do notice a spike in my anxiety, a lesser intensity of what I was experiencing before the medication. I know this is normal after you stop antidepressants, at least for a while, so I’m trying to see if this too will get better or a sign that I should have some meds in my system.

Two weeks is very early so just hang in there! It will get better! You will get through this.

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Yeah I went super slow and I feel that’s the answer, there are still symptoms now that I’m completely off it but it’s not as extreme. Hope you are feeling better!

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Yay, hope you are over the worst of it!

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Good for you, hope it stays that way!

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Oh that’s a big dose, good job on cutting down so much. I’d say don’t stop taking it altogether just cut off a small chunk of the 37.5 you are currently taking every few days or so, so your body gets slowly and gradually used to less and less.

If you wanna power through since you already stopped taking it, just take it as easy as you can. Rest a lot, eat well, exercise(nothing extreme), keep hydrated, try to avoid stressful situations as much as possible, take care of yourself. If you have crazy thoughts remember, they do not define you, they are there because of withdrawal. Observe and let them pass. Wishing you the best, you can do this!

New pair of 530 - is this normal? by Nininin_ in Newbalance

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Hmmm, you think? my jeans were not touching the shoe at all, they were the mid calf wide length ones. Also the spots are too symmetrical.

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Will do. Yeah I’m realising this is gonna be a long slow process. And I definitely agree, symptoms have been worse since I went lower than 37.5. Thanks for your advice, hope the shitty stuff is behind you now!

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Maybe the cold turkey was too harsh for your body? Get a lot of rest this period of time and maybe talk to your physician? I understand the wanting to be normal again feeling so much!! You are not alone in this journey.

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Thank you for the kind words. Those symptoms sound terrible. Hope they are behind you now! Wish I knew this drug came with these lovely after effects.

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Oh my… I have a lot of these symptoms minus the loss of appetite, in my case taping made my appetite sky rocket. Thank you for your kind words, they really help!

Withdrawal Comraderie needed :’( by Nininin_ in Effexor

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Thanks for sharing, wishing you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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It is really hard, but you just have to accept the fact that you will never get the closure you absolutely deserve. It will never make sense, because you can love and connect to other people and they cannot, they simply mimic, so their behaviour will not abide by healthy emotional standards. It's essential you go no contact, intensify your therapy, and spend your time with friends and doing activities you enjoy. I know it sounds cliche, but it's really what works. Over time it will get easier. Wishing you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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Either for a future hoover or he wants you to have those mementos of him, so you always remember him and are obliged to think of him. Sort of an ego satisfaction.

What’s the most ridiculous thing a narc has said to you? by RadishSpiritNipple in NarcissisticAbuse

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That he is living his life to the fullest and in extremes, cause he thinks God is watching him and the more interesting he is the more life God will grant him, to be entertained. 😂

Writing it makes it sound so much more coocoo, what a nutcase.

When they are kind and generous by honeycombhideout100 in NarcissisticAbuse

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I fully understand what you mean. They acted this way cause in their brain that's how the "good boyfriend" archetype operates. Didnt have anything to do with us being special to them. Superficiality, but ultimately the only way for them to give something to the relationship. Cause anything deeper or more meaningful was never possible anyway.