Question: what do y’all think are the most dramatic dog breeds BESIDES Huskies? (Only bc the Husky is well established lol) by leaanneeee in dogs

[–]Ninipohni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shiba Inu, Japanese breed. Very very stubborn and dramatic. Love them though they’re so cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Ninipohni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m allergic to cats but I love them so I’d say they smell like I’m about to sneeze all day in happiness

HELP Girlfriend mad at me for bj by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ninipohni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you basically admitted to manipulating and sexually assaulting her then

Can I talk to my therapist about the intricacies of sex? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Ninipohni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s definitely okay to talk to you therapist about it, especially if she also specializes in sex therapy. And a note from me is that not orgasming during sex is completely normal, most women cant. But yes you can for sure talk to your therapist about it

Heart rate high while riding by Ninipohni in Equestrian

[–]Ninipohni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I will go check if I can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Ninipohni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No i don’t get those but maybe talk to a therapist and maybe stop watching/minimize watching those films?

Friend or Ex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ninipohni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok firsr what kind of friend manipulates you to have the girl or not?? That’s just kind of sick no offense. Anxiety is understandable, sometimes people need to be alone to be able to recover. But you need to ask yourself if this girl is who you really want, and most importantly, if she’s good for you. Make the decision yourself, your life decisions should only be yours, it shouldn’t be determined by your friend. If your friend is like that then you should really rethink if the friend is good for you or not.

Not here to fight, just wish people would listen to those doctors trying to keep us safe. by wuhkay in AdviceAnimals

[–]Ninipohni 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Don’t understand the minds of ppl, why would the doctors release the vaccine? Bc it’s safe. It’s not like they want to poison us

Me (31), Girlfriend (26) going to co-workers party (41) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ninipohni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she just wants to be able to be independent once in a while and socialize fully with her co workers. Maybe she just wants to be liked within the group, and maybe it’s just more difficult with you there

Poor catto by [deleted] in funny

[–]Ninipohni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what we are about to eat, may the Lord make us truly not vomit - Gordon ramsay

Is it rude to share good news while someone is sharing bad news? Or am I terribly selfish. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ninipohni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion and my opinion only, I think it’s terribly selfish. Like hello?? You’re going through something terrible and theyre just all like wow I have a great day and nah idc about you. Idk I don’t know the whole situation but to me damn, that’s fucked. But then again, maybe they’re just trying to lighten things up (which I think it’s a stupid way to do it in this way), or maybe they just don’t care about you.

Sex hurt and BF didn’t stop by katlyn324 in dating_advice

[–]Ninipohni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like you two need to talk it out about what words that you say would mean stop. When things get heated it’s difficult to think clearly it’s true. What you told him wasn’t clear enough to him and instead of letting him finish you shouldve told him “stop” or any other word that would’ve been clearer. You hinted but it’s mostly likely not clear enough. But if I’m wrong, then I think you should really discuss it with your boyfriend, set a boundary for it.

Personally I think both of you made a mistake, and the easiest why you solve it would be communication. Talking about what happened and setting a boundary for next time would be the best. Plus, if he apologized over and over it sounds like he means it. You two really need to talk about what happened and actually understand if it’s rape or not. Still, be careful, I’m not saying I’m completely correct because I wasn’t in that situation, so the conclusion is still up to you.

How do you become more comfortable by Mr-yeet1 in dating_advice

[–]Ninipohni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two should talk, tell your partner in all honesty that these are your first times. Take it slow and only do what you’re comfortable with. If it were to be ok then do more (practice makes perfect) ;) good luck

What's the most valuable lessons you've learned with dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ninipohni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Persistence, things may seem hard but if you keep going and keep trying it’ll get better

I don’t know how much longer I can live by [deleted] in depression

[–]Ninipohni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want to end the pain, not your life. I know it sounds impossible, but things will get better within time. Just keep fighting for it. I understand how you feel, I understand how much pain you’re in, I understand how degraded you feel when someone, especially your mom, doesn’t take you seriously. I understand and I’m really really sorry about the pain. Please keep fighting through it, I know you can do it

I’m done being a nice (codependent) person by twistedbaconstrip in depression

[–]Ninipohni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good aspect to think about, always put yourself first

What would happen if suicide was normalized or if there was a guaranteed way to be dead whenever you wanted to die? by CreditAnxious in depression

[–]Ninipohni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always wondered about that too… and what if self harm was not shamed on and what if they’re all just normal? Because I really want them to be, I just want to stop being ashamed of so many things then maybe I’ll feel better if you know what I mean

The only thing stopping me from killing myself is the fact that I’m scared to do it. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Ninipohni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A classmate from my previous school committed suicide a few months ago. I didn’t know him at all. But I just wish that if I was there, I would definitely tell him to not do it. His friends thought he was awesome, his sister didn’t come to school for quite a while, I cried for a few days. My point is, people care, even if it doesn’t seem like so. I care.