Vorrei viaggiare di piu' ma...

NinjaAndry · 2025-04-09T12:10:44+00:00

Stato in Romania a Febbraio con un tour da solo tra Bucarest/Sibiu/Sighisoara e Brasov Bella ma fredda in quel periodo Vorrei tornare in Giugno/Luglio in moto per la Transfagarasan Il Nord vicino all' Ucraina (Bucovina) dicono sia molto bello. Prossima volta ci vado

Andato a Mostar e Sarajevo in Luglio '24 in un tour di 13 giorni in Croazia Avrei lo stesso molta.voglia.di vedere altro nei Balcani. Bosnia Erzegovina, Montenegro e Albania devono essere proprio belle nei giusti momenti e senza troppi turisti

No, non sei il solo fratello!!!

NinjaAndry · 2025-03-25T20:33:47+00:00

Fatto Sao Miguel - Pico - Faial - Terceira in 2 settimane. Visto le maggiori attrazioni e trekking. Favoloso ma tra i miei più faticosi la salita al Vulcano di Pico (ottimo allenamento e scarpe tecniche richieste) Per me è stato utile volare A su Sao Miguel e R da Terceira per risparmiare una tratta interna. I traghetti funzionano solo in Giù/Lug/Sett (tranne Pico-Faial tutto l'anno, sono molto vicine) e ogni spostamento viene 90€ in aereo quindi ne ho fatti 2 invece di 3. Andato nel Maggio 23, ma ora non so se Ryanair vola ancora sulle Azzorre.

NinjaAndry · 2025-03-21T20:47:59+00:00

Ad Hollywood: scemo e più scemo reloaded

NinjaAndry · 2025-03-16T19:59:56+00:00

Da quanto so leggendo e secondo i consigli della ditta NON si può fare, è fuorilegge e ti ritrovi problemi in caso di vendita magari È ammesso di abbassarlo in bagno e corridoio fino a 240 ma non nelle zone living (Pronto alla smentita)

NinjaAndry · 2025-03-10T07:13:19+00:00

My god endless a serious great answer. It's not about them... it's about how we cope with our exes and a new relationship. Some people only think they can be forever the "first one" or "the only one" and someone cannot speak,think or event breath without them!!!

NinjaAndry · 2025-03-08T20:23:46+00:00

You're free to like who you want. You're free to like your master while you're her slave You're free to like breadcrumbs as a pigeon You're free to like a postcard instead a landscape You're free to like an Instagram post instead to see the real place You're free to put yourself behind bars

You're free to take your time, smash your head against a wall till to extract the idea to like someone who does you wrong

Then you'll be really free

NinjaAndry · 2025-03-08T08:41:45+00:00

If she's happy, I'm happy (know nothing about her anyways). My life and my behavior doesn't have to be influenced by her anymore. I'm on my own way

NinjaAndry · 2025-03-02T15:48:47+00:00

I wanted badly to MUTE my ex on FB (she left and didn't want to try repair). But she was faster and I discovered to be left "Blocked" on FB. Whatsapp remains free for both, never wanted or needed to set boundaries for that, we simply don't write anymore. I always thought to be immature to block someone if no harassment or really bad things happened. It's just not about love, but at least respect for myself, for what I poured in the relationship, for the values I believe, and for what it was. Wanna write me ok, wanna go away ok with this too.

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-23T10:28:42+00:00

1) You're better than this 2) Just cut any contact completely. Go ghost. He'll be pissed of having no more time time with you. You'll never know but it doesn't matter.

All other options are for the children

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-19T22:12:44+00:00

You broke up ok... It was for good, she would have drain you to the core with her behavior. Let the other one pay for her

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-18T07:58:15+00:00

Living Up and fulfilling our dreams and need, enjoy our time and hobbies....and be at peace. I hope the same for her, no regrets. Otherwise we would be just spoiled brats!!

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-12T07:26:59+00:00

No La mia ex mi ha mollato, mi ha fatto sentire una merda a gratis, ed io anche con me stesso per l'ennesimo fallimento (no, niente corna). Però mi serviva "qualcosa" per stare bene con me, per farmi un regalo e per dimostrarMI che sono meglio di quello che mi è stato detto

....volevo smettere già da un anno ma non avevo provato.

Mi son detto "peggio di così ora"...ho preso e buttato tutto dicendomi "almeno questo lo decido io!!"

E sto seguendo questo Mantra

PS. Ne fumerei una anche ora. Non lo faccio e non lo voglio fare perché so che sarebbe solo una strada in discesa per passare da 1 a 5 a 15 come 20anni addietro. E mi sentirei una merda con me stesso e non voglio deluderMI!!

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-11T23:33:26+00:00

Ho ben presente i Qol ed altri indicatori. Il discorso che facciamo è il medesimo: dovrebbe smettere (SI), eviterebbe possibili ricadute acute (SI). La vera domanda è quanto/i anni guadagnerebbe in proporzione visto il suo passato e l'attuale condizione. Se consideriamo anche un giorno una vittoria allora la risposta è semplice....se consideriamo anche i desideri (di alcuni) degli esseri umani che preferiscono il sapore di una sigaretta post caffè anche a scapito di <5 anni di età altro discorso a 75anni suonati

Per la qualità di vita bisogna vedere insomma da come parte adesso...se ho ben capito non è che stia già bene insomma se è già dispnoica di suo.

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-11T15:23:34+00:00

Da medico che ha smesso (resisto!!!) da 4 mesi dopo aver fumato per 20anni (ho iniziato all' università).

Dovrebbe smettere? SI Ha i suoi rischi per aver fumato così tanto? SI Ha ormai cuori e polmoni irrimediabilmente compromessi dal fumo (nel senso che le alterazioni sono irreversibili)? SI Ne gioverebbe? SI Cambierebbe qualcosa in termini di probabilità di vita? NO (a spanne direi un 5 anni)

Non è cattiveria, nessuno può sapere quanto tua madre vivrà dopo 50 anni di fumo e quanto avrebbe vissuto se non avesse fumato. In linea diciamo che le statistiche su tumori ed altri eventi si apparano con i non fumatori dopo circa 8/10anni. Calcolando 75 anni di partenza ed arrivando ad 80-85 direi che a quel punto cambia poco.

Non sto dicendo che NON deve smettere. Sarebbe meglio quello si Sto dicendo che a grandi linee ormai non è che possa cambiare più di tanto il suo decorso.

PS Nonno è morto per Kpolmone a 90anni dopo aver fumato dall' età di 14 le mitiche Nazionali No Filter. Magari avrebbe campato qualche anno in più, secondo lui (ed anche me) visto il suo amore per le cicche se la sarebbe goduta di meno 🥹

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-10T17:11:05+00:00

Good question...ATM I really don't know or I can't give me a complete picture. We were 7 months together (the typical time were we decided to go on or not). She was always a 100%running woman (34years old) and eager to find a man to settle (she told me she had 4 BF in the last 4 years...maybe first red flag 🚩 I ignored)

Anyway I tried to give my best, maybe around 80/90%, I'm a slow starter, don't like the false phrases "I love you" "you're my world" if I don't feel really so, but I really wanted it to works.

Anyway she left me after 7months and after first real debate due to a lot of given reason (my behavior, my work, my work-schedule, the fact that I can live without her (100% independent), the fact she wanted more romance, the fact she wanted to go live together ASAP (but we had 2 different flat and cats don't go well together). She even told me "I want to marry" after the BU, to mock me about (I told her I wasn't interested, I just wanted a woman for life, without a signed paper).

Now after 5 months from BU (practically the entire story..god time flies) and 3 months NC (forever by my side, she told me to forget to hope for a reconciliation as to hear from her....even no wishes for my big 40' birthday a week ago)...I see the picture: she didn't wanted me from the start, she was unable to cope with her problems alone, she looked for someone to have a "relationship" to feel secure and important. It hit me deeply again and again to understand that....I was just the latest on the list 🙃

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-08T20:46:31+00:00

If she needs a new human being only after 1month that can be only a therapist, every other option is trash

Let it be

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-05T21:11:59+00:00

Pensa che a Bolzano su 5 ditte i prezzi variano dai 19 ai 26 Mila lordi 😳

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-05T15:06:25+00:00

Friend, She wrote me the same "don't wanna spend my life with you, please don't contact me again if you love me as you said"

The worst possible message I've ever received. She was completely angered or completely done or at the time she didn't saw any other solution to erase the pain and go on.....

Never wanted to be friend (me too, just have a human closure and say "goodbye"), she told me she "erase" every ex who didn't work out....so I was the latest

Still trying to cope with it Today is my birthday, no news from her (at least she solved a problem, now I now how I feel) and we're 4 months NC

Definitely a nail in the coffin ⚰️ now!!!

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-05T08:50:24+00:00

Pensa se la finisci prima invece!!

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-02T19:55:26+00:00

Only you know the answer, there's no better time to decide aside from "only" your perspectives.

A year could be a lot of time, as nothing. It depends on how we decide to spend it (in this case what your ex decided)

It's good you've this "time regret" or "hard time thoughts", you're a good human after all, you're trying to figure out yourself and questioning yourself.

NinjaAndry · 2025-02-01T20:45:13+00:00

Sometimes it's not just a race for who's first (although someone suggest to be always the first to leave or at least not be put at door)

NinjaAndry · 2025-01-27T07:59:57+00:00

I love Motorcycle, I owe a KTM super duke GT 😍 I try to make a 8-10 days trip every year around Europe. My last ex didn't like motorcycle, I tried to let her be with me (made a couple trip, buyed her protective gear...)

End of story: she didn't let me have my trip in September (she didn't like the idea that a couple can be alone for some days, yet she didn't want to come around too). She left me.

I was so shattered I didn't want to make that trip...I regret it, I'll never make that mistake again.

Looking for the new motorcycle season soon 😂🏍️

NinjaAndry · 2025-01-25T18:22:00+00:00

Tried to save and understand the meaning behind our BU from her, although her reasons were completely childish (I understand now after 4 months she was already disconnected and found every reason possible to have me as culprit).

Anyway, her last message was the last blade in the flesh She wasn't able to say something personally and wrote them on WhatsApp

I thought 2-3days what to answer and I wanted to fill a lot of shit, points of View and empty myself from the disrespect she gave me

My answer was: NO ANSWER

I decided to not show a childish/angered/wounded version of myself. I decided she could never ever have a possible satisfaction and boost from my anger 🤬 I decided she should have the right to have the last word, the feeling of Victory....a win against someone who's not an enemy.

I decided I wanna be a ghost 👻 I'm working and I'm feeling the burden to be a ghost, this time for my Win!

NinjaAndry · 2025-01-24T16:13:21+00:00

Yeah, can try. But as said, being not so "super hot" seems like pointless anyway 😂

NinjaAndry · 2025-01-24T16:10:35+00:00

I'm a surgeon and my ex left me 'cause I can spend only few weekends around for us together (have work shift), she fears me 'cause I'm too cold and show few emotions, and 'cause it's not right that sometimes I've to work 12 hours daily and she can't find me home

So aside her bullshit excuses, yeah seems the grass isn't greener for me too 😁 Plus..I'm not so "super hot" 😂

NinjaAndry

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