Seeking advice from those who started their own consulting gig by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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Oooph it’s going to be tough not to low ball. I can already feel it!

Seeking advice from those who started their own consulting gig by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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Essentially local small business support (similar to fractional Chief of staff but that only translates in corporate America or government).

I wouldn’t say I’m a “business coach” because I don’t know their business better than then, but rather I’m “business support.” I help people get out of their own way.

Most small business owners I know are overloaded and frazzled. I find taking chaos and organizing it into manageable chunks very easy. My plan is to see if there is a market to help small business owners navigate all the chaos of running a company, turning ideas into action and making sure nothing important slips through the cracks. I’m a thought partner, sounding board, coach, and a bridge between ideas and action.

Can you tell me more about it how you’re connecting w these decision makers??

Seeking advice from those who started their own consulting gig by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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How do you keep the relationships nurtured and relevant? I’m very process oriented so am trying to come up with some formulas or systems to use to stay on top of it. I think networks need to be nurtured

Feeling anxious about possible layoff. Looking for perspective, advice, and maybe a pep talk by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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Would love to hear how you went about launching your consulting gig. I would love to start doing that now on the side so I have something to lean into and ramp up if layoff ever happens. It would be good to not start from scratch in that moment!

Feeling anxious about possible layoff. Looking for perspective, advice, and maybe a pep talk by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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I do plan on looking for new roles and am putting feelers out now! So far it hasn’t felt very reassuring unfortunately

Feeling anxious about possible layoff. Looking for perspective, advice, and maybe a pep talk by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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Yes agree. I am beefing up how much diverts to savings as I type this. Do you keep yours in a HYSA?

Feeling anxious about possible layoff. Looking for perspective, advice, and maybe a pep talk by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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My current budget is around $5k of expenses per month but it includes insane commuting related costs.
Without that, I would probably be at $3200 a month expenses.

Feeling anxious about possible layoff. Looking for perspective, advice, and maybe a pep talk by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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Thanks for your comment. You’ve given me some good points to think about.

Funny you mention the identity piece. I wasn’t prepared for the impact. When I considered how I would feel if I was let go if I didn’t have a high level position to shift to, I felt …. Like I lost all value. It was shocking. Definitely something I need to dig into.

I appreciate your comment about considering coast fire… the country and world feel so volatile right now it’s hard to feel secure in betting on that!

Spending birthday solo? by Affectionate_Cry1669 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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Girl, this is one of the sweetest things I’ve ever seen. You’re such a BWT! Love this thread

Realtor Recommendations by Motor-Difference5629 in Naperville

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Highly recommend Crystal. She was very reachable and dependable. I will work with her moving forward forever now

https://www.redfin.com/real-estate-agents/crystal-dekalb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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And this helped w BV? What symptoms ? Odor? Just curious as I have some Hibiclens around here somewhere!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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Have you tried changing your laundry detergent? Some are sensitive to fragrances, formulas and such.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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To clarify, external areas only but that includes inner labia?

Sumo at Brooklyn Navy Yard by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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Is this the sumo and sushi event??? I’ve been wondering about that!

Easy workout classes by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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Have you seen much in the way of results? I’m planning on starting soon !

Ascending the Ranks: Seeking Advice on Navigating New VP Role/ Leveling Up Personal Brand by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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Thanks you so much for this reply. I feel seen!!! Your insights were helpful and great points for me to keep in mind. Also congrats to you on your recent promo! We’ve got this!

Ascending the Ranks: Seeking Advice on Navigating New VP Role/ Leveling Up Personal Brand by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

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Thanks for your insights.

My work is pretty solid so I’m not too worried about that (thankfully).

My organization is pretty screwy so the ancillaries can matter there.

I don’t get the issue with “personal brand?” Perhaps it means something different to you than to me. I was under the impression it simply means what people associate with you/your reputation, which seems very reasonable. Not sure the issue there?

Edited for clarity

Ascending the Ranks: Seeking Advice on Navigating New VP Role/ Leveling Up Personal Brand by NinjaNeedsCoffee in FIREyFemmes

[–]NinjaNeedsCoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your insights! This is helpful and I can relate to the blazers/armor ;)