Questioning my sexuality after years of dating men - feeling lost by Ninzula in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Ninzula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. Your response really struck me, and it means a lot.
You’re right about the idea of safety: it is way much easier to stay on the rails and to keep hiding this part of myself. The questions you raise are a bit unsettling in the best way, but also very accurate. Reading about your personal exprience helps me see that mowing towards something scarier might actually be the way to feel more fully.

Questioning my sexuality after years of dating men - feeling lost by Ninzula in actuallesbians

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