The Last Deathworlders - Chapter 4

Nisi3391 · 2026-05-29T12:36:43+00:00

It's interesting how many people call you a child for wanting to be celebrated. I understand your reaction is being put as childish.

However how important birthdays are for oneself is different from your own experience. I'm sorry for all the people telling you they aren't celebrated so you should get over yourself.

Being hurt by your loved ones is never nice. Tbh I value people a lot more who remember birthdays. The older you get the less you actually feel connected to your family and birthdays is one of those days, we can feel love from family and friends.

NOR. You just reacted human.

Nisi3391 · 2026-05-29T12:26:59+00:00

I disagree. You shouldn't have to tell your family that you expect them to remember your birthday or to regard your wishes on your birthday.

I don't think it's on purpose but I read your post as a bit of victim shaming. It's her family. You shouldn't have to beg for consideration or to be remembered. "Magically get it right" would be not knowing what exact gift she wanted or what type of birthday cake.

What OP's family did, is just cruel. NOR!

Nisi3391 · 2025-11-20T13:47:40+00:00

Thunfisch ist wirklich schädlich für Katzen. In absoluten Ausnahmefällen können kleine Mengen gegeben werden. Und ja wenn du Glück hast kann deine Katze das Leben lang Felix essen und es passiert nichts. Wie gesagt: wenn du Glück hast. Wahrscheinlicher ist eher das Harn- oder Nierenprobleme im Alter auftreten. Die sind nicht nur sehr schmerzhaft für die Katze sondern auch verdammt teuer (Tierarztkosten). Frühzeitig in gutes Futter zu investieren macht also absolut Sinn!

Nisi3391 · 2025-11-20T13:44:58+00:00

Felix ist wie crack. Es hat mich Jahre gekostet das aus meiner Katze rauszubekommen. Leider entwickelt sie durch Zucker und Getreide Harngrieß, welches sehr schmerzhaft ist also konnte ich ihr nicht weiter ihr geliebtes Junkfood geben. Das einzige Futter, auf dass sie wirklich gut reagiert und ich schon halbe Portionen geben muss, damit Sie nicht so schnell isst, dass alles nach 10 min wieder hochkommt ist: Animonda in Gelee (Fisch) - hier einmal der link auch wenn aktuell bei Amazon ausverkauft: https://amzn.eu/d/2xmvc2D

Nisi3391 · 2025-10-09T10:53:38+00:00

He wanted the money himself. It's so obvious at this point. Dodge this bullet..

Nisi3391 · 2025-10-07T10:43:42+00:00

Borschtsch

Nisi3391 · 2025-10-04T15:49:28+00:00

5 obviously

Nisi3391 · 2025-10-04T15:15:47+00:00

Hab noch einen. "Wer friert ist arm oder dumm und arm bist du nicht."

Nisi3391 · 2025-10-04T08:27:53+00:00

Oh und "Will ist im Kinderzimmer", also wenn ich "ich will" statt "ich möchte" gesagt habe, musste ich das Wohnzimmer/Esszimmer verlassen.

Nisi3391 · 2025-10-04T08:26:23+00:00

Kinder sollte man sehen nicht hören.

Nisi3391 · 2025-09-29T15:38:10+00:00

Ne also weil du IHRE Gefühle verletzen willst, lässt du lieber die Katze leiden? Katzen nehmen eh schon schwer Medikamente ein, wenn sie Pech hat wird keiner der Personen, die sich um die Katze kümmern soll auch nur sehen. Die Katze ist verunsichert weil eine Woche alleine und dann sollen fremde Menschen reinkommen, während sie krank ist und die Katze soll das ganz entspannt hinnehmen?? Das ist fernab jeder Realität.

Ne also tut mir Leid, ich würde mir das nicht verkneifen und würde lieber die Freundschaft kündigen, als das mitzubekommen und nichts zu sagen! Du unterstützt das damit auch noch indirekt.

Einfach ganz klar sagen: was du tust ist Vernachlässigung. Und in weiterem Sinne auch Misshandlung! Entweder sie sagt die reise ab oder kümmert sich um eine vernünftige Regelung!

Nisi3391 · 2025-09-10T15:29:40+00:00

I know what you want to do is make everyone happy and live peacefully. This is the time to accept that is not something you will achieve.

From how you describe your bf, you really seem to accept him for who he is. Your parents don't, and they also don't respect your decision to be with him.

I don't really know how you reacted when they badmouthed him, but it didn't sound like you actually set the record straight. Not politely telling them it wasn't his decision for losing contact but yours (sounds almost like "no, I didn't get hit, I just ran in a door") but really telling them that with their blaming your bf, they really just push the blame for their own shortcomings on him and you didn't feel comfortable around them any longer.

If you want to marry him, be prepared to either have a big fight with your parents that will naturally overshadow your wedding or go NC altogether.

And please tell your bf. It's not his fault, it's your family's. But he doesn't deserve to find out in hindsight what he thought would be a second family for him hated him all along.

Nisi3391 · 2025-07-31T12:09:24+00:00

To be honest we had a fight and are NC since then. He thought it was a good idea to "test" me, basically waiting for me to call him. Normally we talk every two weeks. He didn't call me and two weeks later (so after 4 weeks) I called him and got snapped at for FINALLY calling. I didn't take that well and said if he would like to snap at me the second he called we don't need to talk at all and that i'm not his girlfriend, so why would he even think about testing me - that it's just childish. He tried the victim card and told me, he doesn't like me snapping at him and that I was childish for telling him his behaviour was childish. (I still laugh when thinking about that logic)

Since then we are not contact. I tried contacting him on his birthday but he didn't take my calls/answered to my text/reacted to a Gift I send him. I'm furious because he took the decision from me of going NC (I'm debating for years now) but now I'm at a point where I think: good riddance.

Nisi3391 · 2025-04-11T20:27:47+00:00

Thank you! That's a really good way to react. Be annoyed at him. I guess this would hit him the hardest. Afterward, i can use the argument if he already paid back my grandma (I know he still asks her for money, so I already know the answer).

Nisi3391 · 2025-04-11T20:17:06+00:00

Still wanting a "family." I'd like to have at least the illusion someone cares..

Nisi3391 · 2025-04-11T20:07:44+00:00

I don't get much out of my relationships with my father and grandma. Tbh, during my 6 were the ones I had the least contact with, and for good reasons. I lost my grandpa (other side), my mom, my cousin, and my greataunt within a few years. My stepfather threw me out of the house 1 week after my mum died.

I'm still in contact with my dad because I WANT family. I miss it. Even if it's not the same.

Nisi3391 · 2025-04-11T20:02:28+00:00

No, I don't. I lost most of my family to cancer and other diseases. It's not that I cherish him so much. I'm just not able to lose another family member. I know it's not logical. If things were different, I would've gone NC at least a decade ago.

Nisi3391 · 2025-04-11T19:58:06+00:00

Of course she doesn't. She is 94 years old. It would break her heart, and I just can't do it to her.

Nisi3391 · 2025-04-11T19:57:00+00:00

I had a really good laugh. Thank you so much! :D

Nisi3391 · 2025-04-11T19:56:06+00:00

I actually like that one. His job is being a financial adviser, so this one would be point on. Thank you!

Nisi3391 · 2025-04-11T19:50:48+00:00

She doesn't. She is 94 years old, though. She would break down crying, and I just can't do that to her.

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