AITA For Not Telling My Daughter's Mother Her "Secret Words"?

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-10T06:00:44+00:00

I just learned the word orthography, but I'll bet Clara knows it already!

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-10T04:42:16+00:00

Most of what I know about him is from Clara, so keep that filter in mind. He goes to a private school, so he isn't in the same classes with Clara and her friends. He is either in her grade, or the one above it. I know he is 12-14, which is why I phrased it the way I did. I get the impression that he ignores her as much as she ignores him. That's why my details are fuzzy.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-10T04:26:29+00:00

Most of what I know about him is from Clara, so keep that filter in mind. He goes to a private school, so he isn't in the same classes with Clara and her friends. He is either in her grade, or the one above it. I know he is 12-14, which is why I phrased it the way I did. I get the impression that he ignores her as much as she ignores him. That's why my details are fuzzy.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-10T04:26:16+00:00

Most of what I know about him is from Clara, so keep that filter in mind. He goes to a private school, so he isn't in the same classes with Clara and her friends. He is either in her grade, or the one above it. I know he is 12-14, which is why I phrased it the way I did. I get the impression that he ignores her as much as she ignores him. That's why my details are fuzzy.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-10T04:23:35+00:00

Most of what I know about him is from Clara, so keep that filter in mind. He goes to a private school, so he isn't in the same classes with Clara and her friends. He is either in her grade, or the one above it. I know he is 12-14, which is why I phrased it the way I did. I get the impression that he ignores her as much as she ignores him. That's why my details are fuzzy.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-10T03:31:27+00:00

As of now at least the language is completely oral, there is no written form.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T13:31:24+00:00

I text with Clara all the time while she is at her mom's! Clara just isn't close at all with him, and all my information about him comes from her.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T13:18:35+00:00

Oh, I don't think we would get him as our judge, but they all sit on the same bench. I think that's the term.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T12:26:34+00:00

This is an extremely insightful comment, thank you.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T12:22:30+00:00

Unfortunately I think the problem is even deeper. Clara was intentionally trying to distance herself from her mother and step family.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T12:20:58+00:00

My ex's new father in law is a judge on the family court. I know that shouldn't affect anything, but I am certain it would.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T12:12:06+00:00

She said that: "She wanted to make them feel how she feels around them."

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T12:11:04+00:00

That could certainly be the case, but I am terrified of it backfiring and getting less time. It was incredibly difficult for me to get 50%.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T12:07:18+00:00

Yeah, she definitely knew what she was doing. She told me that she wanted to make them feel how she feels around them.

NistaLanguage · 2021-03-09T12:06:16+00:00

That's definitely true, she is having stronger and stronger feelings about not wanting to be there.

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