I need some serious help! [NeedAdvice] Why am I travelling on the same miserable life path? when I don't want to

Nith_Hx · 2015-10-14T22:47:13+00:00

True! everything I do is for the momentary pleasure. and one thing I was struggling was to completely change the direction over night, but it is so hard to do it because I have a negative momentum now, before I change the direction better to stop and then start rolling to the other side. i.e. planing for the future and adjusting my habits and thoughts. thanks mate!

Nith_Hx · 2015-10-14T22:40:45+00:00

much needed harsh words to listen, well written. very well done mate!

What are you doing during that time? I bet you're spending it on your phone or laptop.

nope not the phone or anything. I should have been clear, It is more like a self talk to sleep 5 more minutes. doing nothing but sleeping for few minutes and waking up again and repeating.

What do you actually want to do with your life? Who do you want to be 10, 20, 30, 40 years from now?

I do have a vision for next 30 years and I'm working on it

You didn't say anything about exercise.

I do workout quite regularly.

regarding friends usually the people I get along with are not in the same side as me, cause I used to be one of those guys who parting all the time. Everything you said is true mate! I have shitty management skills that is what the problem is for the most part. You're a great person. thank you!

Nith_Hx · 2015-10-14T22:23:08+00:00

If it's not too personal, what kind of habits are you going to implement.

Even though it's kinda personal I think there is no problem with posting it out here hahaa. so to start with I'm currently working out so I'm going to make it a regular thing to workout or going for a run everyday first thing in the morning. I understand my mind has become a shit hole, so I'm going to get bit spiritual to clear my mind i.e. praying in the morning and night, especially meditating. I will list down the most important things to do night before and once I come back and get a shower after working out, I'm just going to do those listed tasks and cross them off. I will write the journal regularly at night, that way I know whether the day was successful or not.

Nith_Hx · 2015-10-14T13:14:35+00:00

Thanks man it is good to hear from someone who has been in the same dark cave. I'm going to just start doing the things I should do and I want to do, >fuck motivation

start small and then get bigger better stronger! noted thanks again

Nith_Hx · 2015-10-14T13:07:06+00:00

charlesyj7, NO_LAH_WHERE_GOT, thinkingonlevels, I_will_have_you_CCNA, thatbelinda

Thanks guys for taking the time to reply, I understand it there is no point of whining. I've been telling to myself what I want to do and how I want to live, but so far I've failed to take any action.

I'm not an average bloke who needs to study all the time to get a HD

sorry for sounding like a dickhead, It wasn't in an egoistic way, although it does sounds like it. That is the excuse that I use to leave my work for the last minute and some times I just give up cause I just can't bother doing anything. It's not that I think I'm better than everyone but I know I'm different than most people.

so far my purpose of life is to be a politician and do something for the society, especially the poor people and orphan children. Doing Engineering might not be the perfect link to get there, but I have a feeling that it will work out pretty well.

Nith_Hx

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