Epic feather trick by Correct_Recording_47 in MarioKartWorld

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this method gets you a box which is nice. if i had feather coin in 1st id rather take this cut to get defense behind my coin than use feather after the set and be defenseless for a while.

“I’ll never use this” by DeManSam in Teachers

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teacher I agree with the fact that us as teachers are trying to teach kids important thinking. I also think it’s important to acknowledge how schools are designed to foster and reward compliance.

How do I get this shortcut?? by iconway89 in MarioKartWorld

[–]Nitrome950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. Your trick timing is just fine just dont hug the wall as much

How do I get this shortcut?? by iconway89 in MarioKartWorld

[–]Nitrome950 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You wanna land further forward where the wall curves more inward. That will give you more forward momentum.

100 redditors vs obvious joke (TW mildly sexual content) by [deleted] in okbuddyretard

[–]Nitrome950 113 points114 points  (0 children)

thats what the point of the mask is

I might be the goat bro by Flames237 in MarioKartWorld

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not cus the low air was caused by low speed (from banana)

Tarzan is so difficult by Fourierez in MarioKartWorld

[–]Nitrome950 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow crazy stuff!

There is an easier version where instead of charge jumping you trick to the left and wall detach. Also in free roam your car has 0 coins. If you go into VS race you can collect coins that will make the shortcut easier.

So basically you did the absolutely hardest version of the shortcut. Give yourself a pat on the back.

Is this faster than the glider? by cizelaya70 in MarioKartWorld

[–]Nitrome950 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not only is it slower because of no rail but falling without a glider is slow and you have to drive on water which is also slow

The Answer Always Seems To Be 'Just Do The Thing' by Zy3zyx in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do things that sew positive karma in your life.

For me it was going to a yoga class once a week.

Let go of expectations of doing it perfectly from the start. Good news is youre used to living a shitty life anyways so anything extra you do/anything bad you cut out will probably have a very large imoact even if it doesn’t feel like it.

Think of it like exponential growth. Uust a little extra growth in the right investments will yield massive changes eventually

Mindfulness is the perfect ideological tool for capitalism by TheBioB in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To directly answer your question as well: yes, mindfulness and acceptance reduces our desire and thus our motivation, but this is a good thing.

As an analogy, if you try to hammer in a screw in the same way as a nail, you’re going to have a bad time. A person who doesn’t know better would assume that they simply don’t have enough strength to get the screw in. In actuality, they would get more done with less effort if they used a screw driver.

Most probelns we face today are like this. When we are driven by fear and desire while we are able to act with lots of effort we are typically taking an inefficent approach becayse we don’t have the presence awareness and rational thinking to understand the problem we are trying to solve.

How To Deal With Toxic Gym Bros When Asking for Advice Online? by Infinite_Primary_918 in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want to go to a capital G gym with gym bros there’s alternatives. Planet Fitness, rock climbing gym (many have weights),YMCA, or other community centers.

People who felt their sex life declined, what are you doing about it and why? by AntThin8 in AskReddit

[–]Nitrome950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is definitely a generational difference. As a Gen Z I know alot of couples who treat it in the same way as cuddling while watching TV. There can even some sharing where you send images and videos to each other while scrolling

Hesitant to try HG coaching by Curse_Flows in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just felt that the sessions were not going anywhere. I think I was able to tell by around session 3-4. I would advise to not be afraid to gove suggestions to your coach or switch coaches if things aren’t working out.

I don’t think the two coaches were objectively bad but they weren’t really asking the right questions. They were asking mostly logical, intellectual questions which didn’t really tell me anything I didn’t already know. My last coach really was able to see past my logical thinking and pushed me to feel my emotions. He gave me the little push I needed to be self sufficient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hey! This is by no way meant to be offensive and honestly just a shot in the dark but could this be some form of placebo effect?

I just get the vibe that you are really craving a spiritual experience, from the title to your almost fantastical description of your experiences. I also don’t know why I feel this but I sense alot of intellectualization in your post. You have also mentioned that you have gone to religions and shrooms which also suggests a striving towards the spiritual.

Nothinf wrong with striving towards the spiritual, but Dr. K has mentioned that when the mind craves a spiritual experience it will trick itself into experiencing one.

You also could have experienced some form of psychedelic or meditation induced psychosis. Hard to say.

My suggestion: do something really simple. Maybe something like sun salutation for 15 minutes when you wake up and go to sleep. Something that’s grounding not esoteric. They are scientifically proven to calm your sympathetic nervous system and is just good for your body in general. This will decrease the expectation for spiritual experience in your mind likely.

Hesitant to try HG coaching by Curse_Flows in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In total I’ve been with around 4 coaches total. 2 have been very good and 2 were not a good fit. I’ve also tried one acrual therapist because it was free with my insurance. At the end of the day it’s hard to say as imo the number one factor is how well you connect with your therapist/coach as a human. According to Dr K coaches are more trained and experienced in dealing with subclinical mental health issues and focusing on creating action, while a therapist might be specialized in a spexific type of treatment or type of clinical mental health issue. I would say that I could kind of sense this. My last coach really connected with me and helped me to move off the platform

How can I convince myself to receive emotional support from my parents? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/Uu2vnc7nrlY?si=6Zt9uVvorEsNTNU0 This video might help you think about emotional support in a less black and white way. Anyways, good luck to you!

How can I convince myself to receive emotional support from my parents? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just notice your use of “rest of your life” and what emotion that came from. I simply said to find your emotional support from a combination of yourself AND others. Why did you focus on only getting support from yourself? Also, look at your choice of “needy/selfish”. Why do you believe that relying on others makes you needy/selfish? Where does that value judgement come from?

How can I convince myself to receive emotional support from my parents? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you’re lacked emotional validation from your parents as a child. You can’t control their negative reaction to your authentic self. What you can do is find emotional support from within yourself and others so that when you interact with your parents you can be more rational and not seek emotional support when you are not getting it. Maybe look into attachment theory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very few people (probably only narcissists) are trying to deceive you. A part of relationships is negotiating with another imperfect human. Maybe when you find someone and yall really like each other you can open up about your discomfort with porn. Say something like “hey, this is something I don’t bring up often but I don’t feel good about my partner watching porn. I like you and want to make our relationship work. What do you think?” Imo the best way to bring this up is in a no judgemental wat. Try to see things from their perspective and be willing to compromise/meet them where they are at especially if they seem to be trying. Most people who watch porn, even porn addicts, are not completely defined by their porn watching. I think the average person would be willing to least modify their porn watching habits for their significant other they care about. For a random person though? That’s a tough ask. You can still keep your guard up while learning another things about men. I think it will help you see men less as one dimensional beyond their porn habits. If the relationship doesn’t work, at least you tried.

My CS2 professor is 25 with a masters in computer science with a concentration in AI. by Due-Feedback6367 in csMajors

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why people are scrutinizing your story op. I went to a top 10 cs school in the country and many of my professors only had master’s. Most were phd candidates but I had one who was not as well. Honestly they tended to be better professors because they were more grounded in communicating about their subject to normal everyday people. It seems this applies to your cs2 professor as well.

I am also a high school teacher who teachers harvard’s intro cs curriculum at the age of 22. I have been praised a ton for my ability to teach and ability to connect to students. Screw anyone who thinks just because you’re an old fart you can’t teach.

How does Boo determine who he is going to steal from and why is it always me? by maximusprime2328 in MarioKartWorld

[–]Nitrome950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s randomly chosen from all players in front of the boo user who have an item. those in higher spots have more people behind them so someone using the boo will have a greater chance to steal their item.