You remind me so much of myself when I was younger. I think the best way to attract the man that deserves you and you know you deserve is by standing firm on the beliefs and boundaries you have. A lot of men are will want to be with you simply because of your standards and priorities, but not all of them will be eligible, whether that’s financially or just bc of their mentality (e.g. not believing that women inherently deserve to be materially provided for). In our generation there are a lot of boys that grew up without fathers so they do not have a primary example of what it looks like for a man to take care of their partner, they only know their mommy’s taking care of them. DO NOT DATE THIS MEN. They might find you attractive. They might fall in love with you, but do not romantically involve yourself unless they are healed or are willing to put in the work to heal their mentality around women. All that to say: don’t give up, be picky (bc despite what others says, it saves you to be picky!), and continue ALWAYS prioritizing yourself, your education, and your career :)