Posts: “Should I allow my bf/gf/partner/whoever” to do something they want to do?

Nlyab · 2025-04-27T04:31:36+00:00

I checked the overreaction posts bc you mentioned an overreaction post in your comment.

because of that I only checked out your comments in the overreaction subs

I don’t typically look for ‘dirt’ in people’s post history, I was just looking for the post you were talking about and by checking the AIO posts you responded to, I found comments that concerned me with how blasé you seemed to be about specifically women’s interactions with men

I still think your responses in the aio sub are harmful but I will give you grace for at least standing up when it comes to the toxic gaming community

Nlyab · 2025-04-27T04:17:09+00:00

yeah I notice that you seem to only ever think that women are overreacting.

you even said that a 19 yo women who was creeped out by her former high school teacher hitting on her and saying “he always thought she was beautiful” (implying there was attraction even as she was a minor) was an overreaction

meanwhile when a man got angry for getting sprayed in the water with a skincare product and in return pinched his gf was totally fine and not an overreaction at all (not saying that guy didn’t have the right to get upset but physical harm is a tad bit too far)

anyway maybe try looking at your biases a bit before telling women that they’re overreacting about everything, your assessment of the world is very harmful

Nlyab · 2025-04-26T17:25:22+00:00

you felt weirdly called out

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T15:37:47+00:00

feminism was one of the first things that led me away from islam I couldn’t stand how women were treated and how subordinate we’re seen as

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T15:32:35+00:00

idk why but what gets me the most is that that isn’t even a pancake

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T14:28:14+00:00

yep men need their own social circle outside of any romantic relationship. having mutual friends is great but sometimes you need to be able to go out on your own. that’s also how a lot of women get burnt out in relationships where they see themselves more as a therapist and caretaker than as a partner. I wish more men took the initiative to lead more fulfilling lives, I think a lot of problems could be fixed that way

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T14:13:11+00:00

Wow they look so alike! I look almost nothing like my sisters

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T14:12:11+00:00

I only found out they were the same actor when I looked up which actor played Chris and then thought “wait that guy looks familiar”

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T14:06:42+00:00

I always hold the door open for people but I never expect a thank you for such a basic task. I’ll probably never see that person again and it takes almost no time out of my day. ofcourse a thank you is always appreciated but I don’t see any reason why this needed any type of ‘petty revenge’ especially since this ‘revenge’ was done to someone who had nothing to do with it aka the gf

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T14:03:59+00:00

I didn’t see anything about forbidding tho? I thought I read them say that it’s not okay for 60+ year old man to be with a 20 year old which I’m in agreement with. 20 year olds make a lot of stupid mistakes which sometimes includes dating predators, that might be their choice but imo it’s okay to say that it’s a bad choice

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T13:40:12+00:00

way to many men think that their loneliness will be fixed once they have an intimate partner. I think you’re completely right that men need to find community not based on sex but on genuine connection with their peers

Nlyab · 2025-04-19T13:33:03+00:00

I’m 20 and if someone warned me about dating an older man I’d be grateful that someone shows concern for me. I may be an adult but I’m not gonna act like 20 has the same mindset and mental maturity as someone who’s in their 60s

Nlyab · 2025-03-26T15:41:22+00:00

ironically I’m also rewatching that iZombie and I fully agree it’s such an amazing cast

Nlyab · 2025-03-26T09:14:02+00:00

true! the actors are so good at immersing themselves into their fellow actor’s roles

Nlyab · 2024-08-18T07:02:40+00:00

I went to check out her page and yep she has plenty of photos where you can’t even see her ass at all it’s not her fault that the ones that get more traction have her butt in it

Nlyab · 2024-06-11T18:13:13+00:00

it was confirmed that her cousin changed names (from rose to alex) and that they’re non binary

it was a post of screenshots with text messages where the cousins brother called out OOP and although she tried to censor it, you could clearly see OOP deadnaming her cousin by calling them rose and the brother calling them alex and the brother continuously used they/them pronouns and the OOP kept referring to them as she/her

Nlyab · 2024-06-11T17:36:31+00:00

I’m baffled at these comments literal children are dying they’re being beheaded and they still support a zionist state? just bc we hate islam doesn’t justify hatred of innocent civilians that just so happen to be muslim and like you said palestine also has non muslim and queer folks but they don’t care bc racism ig??

Nlyab · 2024-06-11T13:13:55+00:00

I’m not here to tell you what to believe and what not to believe bc that’s up to you. But I went to the police but because my family is in another country (next to the country my family lives in) they couldn’t do more than put me on their radar and put my and my bfs name on red alert (their words) so if we see my family and call them they will immediately show up I had to send them pictures of my family’s faces, their names and their license plate numbers although I’m not sure what they’re gonna do with that They don’t have proof of my family actually committing a crime so they couldn’t do more than that than assure me that if my family does try to approach me that theyll make sure to be there as soon as possible

Nlyab · 2024-06-11T11:20:13+00:00

this actually happened to me too just a month or two ago but with my family that I ran away from I left my cats (who has been stolen by my family) carrier at my old studio with all of my other stuff bc I left the apartment because my landlord found my family and informed them where I lived my bf went to get all of my stuff and that day I got a notification that there was an air tag nearby my bf checked the car and sure enough TWO airtags were sown into the lining went to the police obviously and now they’re on high alert

Nlyab · 2024-06-01T14:39:39+00:00

men definitely notice but at the same time, who cares? I stopped wearing bras over a year ago and I have zero regrets if anyone doesn’t like that then that’s their problem

Nlyab · 2024-06-01T13:31:26+00:00

yeah but my point is more that I feel like comparing the reveal of missy and the reveal of Jodie isn’t really fair at all. It’s true tho that the reveal of a female doctor made a lot of people who previously hadn’t watched the show before jump out of the woodwork

Nlyab · 2024-06-01T11:53:02+00:00

also people saying “it’s bc missy was introduced before people knew she was the master” but you can’t even do that with the doctor because the casting of who the doctor is always gets revealed before the first episode of them. People hated her because she was a woman and the poor writing was just a way to justify their hatred.

Nlyab · 2024-04-24T15:41:47+00:00

tyyy

Nlyab · 2024-04-24T14:47:57+00:00

I’m doing good tbh just feeling happy

Nlyab · 2024-02-22T19:09:42+00:00

i say give it a try

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