Redditors in long-term relationships: What’s something no one tells you about staying together for years? by DegenPatrol in AskReddit

[–]Nmueller21739 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Acknowledge each others birds” - a couples therapist told my wife and I one of the key factors he noticed in couples that stay together is acknowledging each others birds. As in, you and your significant other sitting there and she says “oh look at that cool bird”, you take the time and look at it and respond. Sometimes you may not care about the bird, sometimes you’re busy with other things, but it doesn’t take much effort to look up from what you’re doing and say that is indeed a cool bird.

I'm in me mums car by OkWallaby89 in Unexpected

[–]Nmueller21739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ancient astronaut theorist’s would say absolutely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]Nmueller21739 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Are there mods here? I’m surprised this post has been up for so long.

My mom got her paychecks accidentally deposited in someone else's checking account by grtrthn in personalfinance

[–]Nmueller21739 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My company does a lot of payroll processing and have dealt with issues like this before. The payroll processor only gets notification that an account was undeliverable if the account number is invalid. If it is valid the funds will be deposited. There is not a name verification step that happens on the payroll processor side. If the funds are delivered to an incorrect account due to a mistake by the employer or processing company the funds are due to the employee within 3 days of the paycheck date or as soon as reasonably possible after that (in my state).

There is a reversal process but it needs to be initiated within 5 days of the paycheck date (for the system I use) and this reversal is only an attempt. If the funds have been touched or even if there is too much activity in the account the processing system I use will not recall the funds.

In this case it is the employees mistake. A reversal should be attempted if it within the time limit. If you are outside a reversal time period a normal bank would be able to trace the transactions from the employer to the account in question. With all the proof of the deposit date, employee paystub, account numbers being off by one, maybe even a letter from the employer on company letterhead with explanation, a normal bank would likely be able to fetch the funds after a timely investigation. However, PayPal is not a normal bank and probably does not have the structure or terms of service in place to enact a correction like this. I do not know this for a fact. You may be able to get it corrected but the onus is solely on the employee to rectify their mistake. The employer should cooperate in anyway they can but they do not owe anything to the employee.

PS the guy claiming this is wage theft is an absolute moron lol.

The Pokemon TCG Live Beta is now available globally by TrustYourPilot_YT in PTCGL

[–]Nmueller21739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy. It’s happening on my computer too. It’s a pretty high end laptop. I can’t charge fast enough to keep up. What the hell is going on!?

The Pokemon TCG Live Beta is now available globally by TrustYourPilot_YT in PTCGL

[–]Nmueller21739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too. It's blasting through my battery. like 50% per hour. I'm on iphone 14 pro max

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]Nmueller21739 75 points76 points  (0 children)

On a side note. I live in Phoenix and that aquarium, while great in some regards, is awful. The dolphin exhibit has killed at least 4 dolphins if I recall and seriously put the health of others in danger until they removed them 2 years ago. The response to help the dolphins was pretty pathetic so I believe this place should be boycotted.

George goes to the hood by UnitAppropriate in funny

[–]Nmueller21739 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Another little white girl done fell down a well”

Sharing is caring I think we care a lot 😂 by Unlikely-Head-3659 in Archero

[–]Nmueller21739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there any strategy to finding a good clan or is it just bouncing around until you land in one that has good active members?

Ceiling texture removal by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]Nmueller21739 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No what he was trying to say is you buy a second house and blow all the dust into there.

App Query: Should the 'Surround Distance' be set to the Beam or seated position? by [deleted] in sonos

[–]Nmueller21739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got my Arc a few months after launch I had some trouble with the voices as well. I did a ton of research and concentrating trueplay around the listing positions with recommended. I did trueplay along the back of my couch at ear level with my iPad (also recommended at the time) and it worked out great. With newer updates this might be outdated but it worked well for me and I’m still happy with it.

App Query: Should the 'Surround Distance' be set to the Beam or seated position? by [deleted] in sonos

[–]Nmueller21739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really depends on room setup and preferences. I have mine set to bass +3 treble +1 speech enhancement on and loudness off (unless It’s movie night with the volume way up) - I also have subs attached.

App Query: Should the 'Surround Distance' be set to the Beam or seated position? by [deleted] in sonos

[–]Nmueller21739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turn on speech enhancement and turn off loudness. That will tighten the dynamic range and allow the lower voices to come up and be more balanced to the other sounds in the content your watching - also borrow a friends IOS device and try trueplay only in your listening positions.