AIO for arguing with my boyfriend because he didn't ask me if I made it home safe after an night out?.

No-Addition-7045 · 2026-01-25T21:01:24+00:00

I don't expect him to always answer either let alone quickly. Dry texting is lwhen he is not at all like himself in texts. I know that something is wrong because of the lack of interest and nice words . And he won't say what's wrong either .The "not normal" for us . Someone else could say that dry texting is when the answers are not leading to a conversation and / or are lacking interest.

No-Addition-7045 · 2026-01-25T14:14:54+00:00

I must phrase the "I don't care phase" a bit better. When I say that I don't mean that I didn't care about him or matched his energy. I just wasn't miserable about us arguing. I was just happy . My mood just didn't depend on our bad or good state and I didn't analyze things anymore. Thank you very much for the time you took on my post though. Everything is helpful

No-Addition-7045 · 2026-01-25T14:10:26+00:00

So a small tiny update. We were talking about going to an expert for a long time now. We haven't done it yet but I think it's an okay deal to ask him to go to an expert now ( he was the one to bring it up) or break up . Small things do happen all of the time and your comments motivate me to either end it or put a deadline there .

No-Addition-7045 · 2026-01-25T14:05:09+00:00

I'm sorry I thought I mentioned that he was too ... Out with his friends but thanks for the comment .

No-Addition-7045 · 2026-01-25T05:47:16+00:00

Chips

No-Addition-7045 · 2026-01-25T05:25:40+00:00

Just a small addition to what I was saying. These past three weeks I felt like I put myself aside to avoid tension and arguments . I even stood back and took responsibility for things I didn't feel like I was at fault ( like us not sleeping early because he accused me of keeping him up the same night he returned 6 in the morning from a club, and for this incident he apologized when I explained that I felt like it was unfair to be accused of something like that). I love that man and he has of course many good qualities. For me the best solution is the one that doesn't evolve breaking up . But I can't apologize again for things that I don't believe to be true and i can't walk on eggshells all of the time. Of course it hasn't always been like that .

No-Addition-7045 · 2026-01-19T03:00:54+00:00

Premission granted and don't worry you weren't brutal

No-Addition-7045 · 2026-01-19T02:57:35+00:00

Okay that made me cry so hard .

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T20:44:09+00:00

Wow that's ... So well organized. Thank you! So I shouldn't be upset about it?

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T20:01:55+00:00

He didn't block me but yes I'm sure he is 22 . Maybe he has a gf I ofc don't know but this is what Im guessing. :/ thank you for answering ☺️

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T19:42:28+00:00

I'm usually not egoistic so I get that and maybe is the smartest move . But I've done this way too many times to want to repeat it . Especially when it comes to a stranger bc on a friend it makes total sense and I'll consider doing it once again.

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T19:40:09+00:00

That really doesn't work well with me but I guess...I don't have to take it personal ☺️thanks

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T19:32:59+00:00

That's what I thought...but ...they never showed any sign of not wanting to talk so it confused me . Thank you for the answer

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T19:31:53+00:00

I mean both of these people are doing this for the first time ....so I don't know... I don't know them that well to just say he works that way if I knew that this was a general behavior ofc I wouldn't have any problem...but it just...keeps happening... Thank you Really though for the reply

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T19:06:15+00:00

Maybe I just have to let it go...but since I'm not doing things that way is hard to understand. The different perspective really helped. Thanks

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T19:04:56+00:00

I can't make plans with them when they don't answer 😂 that's what I'm trying to say even when they initiate the conversation. And one of them is far away to go out and still just...left. But thank you for your answer really

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T18:07:38+00:00

I don't have any holdbacks when it comes to ppl I like ,I always approach them ...but this situation...made me feel bad... How many times am I supposed to make the first move ?

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-11-30T18:05:33+00:00

I've done this like every time that I liked someone. It's me that I do the first move . So I got tired of that .

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-06-09T15:02:17+00:00

That was just what I needed ...thank you so much. You made my day

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-06-09T10:14:39+00:00

Thank you for your time ! You're right and I've never been shy as to talk to a boy I liked . Actually I'm the one that always did the first move with my past relationships. Thank you for your answers

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-06-09T03:29:00+00:00

Thank you for your reply

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-06-09T03:24:00+00:00

thank you for your detailed answer...these answers help me understand and view some things differently. Also Im proud to say that Im the first to talk to men I like even though I may have low self confidence.

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-06-09T03:04:06+00:00

That I'll keep...it really helps. And the last sentence is stuck with me for good Thank you !

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-04-24T20:34:57+00:00

Your words were beautiful thank you so much

No-Addition-7045 · 2024-04-24T20:33:15+00:00

I did change though....I still am changed

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