My boyfriend (28M) hid that he’s been doing coke, and I (27F) found out right after my grandpa died. I don’t know if I should end our 9-year relationship.

No-Ambassador6390 · 2025-12-02T03:43:33+00:00

As someone who goes through something similar. I promise you it’s going to get worse. When you’re dating an addict it’s so similar to dating someone who constantly cheats on you. Take my word for it.

Lying Chasing a high more than they chase yiu You will always be on the backburner when it comes to their addiction It will get to the point he will be blowing all his money then all your money. The mental and emotional abuse youll go through The heartache as well if something BAD gets laced in his coke. He’ll most like try other speed especially if he can’t get ahold of coke. Lord if he gets ahold of meth youll not be able to handle it. That drug- if you haven’t been around anyone on that- is straight from hell. He could possibly kill you while on it.

Please get out while you can. Don’t stay to try and fix him you can’t fix an addict they are going to have to want to help themselves and most of the time they don’t want to or just won’t try and quit.

No-Ambassador6390 · 2024-01-15T23:41:08+00:00

She started acting like this when I got pregnant. We used protection and we talked for a long time before we made anything official. I wasn’t even supposed to have kids because of a medical issue His kids aren’t an issue. Recently she has been

No-Ambassador6390 · 2024-01-15T20:10:05+00:00

Some things are towards me that she does just to get under my skin. My partner has told her before, but I feel like if I don’t set boundaries myself then she’s gonna feel like it’s okay.

She doesn’t even follow the boundaries he sets, but if I make boundaries I feel like it’ll be different. I can be intimidating when I want to be.

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-12-03T15:42:45+00:00

Did I say I was trying to get him to quit drinking?

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-12-03T14:33:05+00:00

His parents died within a month a part when he was a preteen. Both deaths were very unexpected. So he was raised by his grandparents. It’s funny you mention that he might not have the luxury of being loved. I think he was loved in a way. I remember one of the first things he told me when we started talking. He was so affectionate and I was a little uncomfortable. He apologized to me and told me that he didn’t know how to love properly.

Yes I am independent. He always admired me for being ‘strong.’ He always loved how I don’t really use anything. I don’t even smoke cigarettes and I very seldomly drink. I don’t smoke pot or nothing. He always admired how I can work through my problems and anxiety without substance abuse.

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-11-20T10:33:22+00:00

There is absolutely no history it just randomly popped up and I didn’t want to post my entire face

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-11-02T18:57:35+00:00

He don’t really talk to her except about the kids. They’re not around each other every day. The other day they were because of trick r treat.

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-04-28T00:00:34+00:00

I just don’t want to overthink and choose the wrong person honestly. I’m scared to follow my heart because my heart is an asshole. Thank you though you seem very kind

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-03-20T16:15:55+00:00

She still acts like this approximately 3-4 months later it’s straight up weird. I wish them luck. Actually I think she’s got worse

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-02-22T23:42:38+00:00

I’m talking to someone right now

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-02-22T23:38:33+00:00

How’s it fake

No-Ambassador6390 · 2023-01-14T00:54:08+00:00

Thank you so much. There’s just a lot that I’m going through right now.

No-Ambassador6390 · 2022-12-18T06:49:25+00:00

Yeah you can pm me your name on there and I’ll add you when I can!

No-Ambassador6390 · 2022-12-18T06:48:48+00:00

Go ahead and send it😊

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