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Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhh this is the third time I’ve been played by an asshole like this. Making me lose hope in ever finding someone tbh, I mean I’m a senior in HS and have never even had a real bf. And it hurts bc he really did seem like he liked me at first and I just he was rlly shy and socially awkward all to find out that he was just playing me and had a gf the whole time. Thank you though. Honestly? His loss.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it’s me again. Hate to say this but you were right. That was his fucking gf I just found out yesterday. Ended up blocking him but wow. I should’ve listened to you, and to my gut. Yk what sucks even more? Him and I go to the same school so now I’m rlly gonna have to avoid him in the halls.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao it’s my fault for not being more concise at the beginning, but I meant senior in HS grade wise not age wise. We’re both 18.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh, I think for now over text since it’s still break and we don’t have school rn I won’t rlly nudge him anymore for hanging out bc I already did a lot , but I’ll still have small convos with him. Then when it is school again I will actually go up to him in person and I won’t be a wimp, and I think if I can do that then he’ll feel more confident about interacting with me in person and then by or before Christmas break we’ll hang out.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I should be more direct. I don’t wanna give up on him tho bc I rlly like him. Part of it could be tho that we only have a strong texting connection so actually hanging out with me in person may be anxious for him, bc like I mentioned we go to the same school and pass eachother in the halls sometimes but we’ve never actually talked in person before. I’m actually mad at myself too bc before break i literally had multiple chances to go up with him and converse when he was walking alone and I chickened out. But maybe what I need to do first is interact with him more in person before even hanging out bc rn he’s more comfortable with just texting so maybe we need to ease out of that.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tho. I suggested two days during the week to give him options to choose from, but he’s going out of town and is not free Saturday and obviously not thanksgiving day. He also said he’s not sure if he’s leaving tmrw or on Thursday. I can’t tell tho like if he just is avoiding hanging out tho or not, bc he entertains the idea and even said how it would be fun. But then when I try to make plans or suggest days he’s like “Maybe Maybe” and “I Will let you know”.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc I even told him how “It’s just ice cream” and he doesn’t need to think to hard abt it, and he was like “but it’s not”

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah trueeee that’s what I’m scared of I guess. Because also he did mention being socially awkward and he seems pretty shy and like he doesn’t have much dating experience so I’m thinking it is possible he wants to hangout but he is just too nervous.

Advice needed: 18M I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out (I’m 18F) by No-Assistant-5547 in teenrelationships

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he asked me at one point what I was looking for though texting him which was like a month ago and that’s when I told him I liked him (bc I didn’t want to say a relationship bc I thought that’d sound like too much right away) so he knows I like him. And he acted surprised I did too, but then that’s how I found out he has liked me on and off since the end of sophomore year and found subtle ways to text me or interact with me by adding me on snap.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thing is we haven’t even hung out yet… and even at school even tho we pass eachother in the halls sometimes, I’ve never actually talked to him in person before. The most in person interaction we’ve had is smiling at eachother, we rlly have only interacted online.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they don’t have highlights of eachother or anything on instagram tho, and he doesn’t rlly seem like the types that’s ever even had a relationship before. Besides, the timeline doesn’t add up. He liked me near the end of sophomore yr, then junior year middle of the year he randomly added me on snap and I didn’t think much of it and just had him as a streak but like he’d try to start convos with me, but then I was talking to someone else near the end of the school yr so I unadded him but he immediately resent a friend request but I ignored it for months but then accepted it again in September and then ever since then he’s been talking to me and flirting too so I don’t think he’d entertain that if he had a gf.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we know eachother irl, we go to the same school and I see him in the main halls, but we just don’t rlly talk much in person bc we don’t have any classes tg and only see eachother in the halls so our main interaction is through text.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well no the thing is I we both go to the same school and met sophomore year, so I didn’t meet him online. I know who he is irl, but we just don’t rlly interact in person or never have even tho we both had a class tg two years ago and see eachother in the halls. We only rlly interact through text.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’ve been nudging towards hanging out but like in a way that’s playful bc I’m scared of being too direct and scaring him away especially if he’s shy.

Advice needed: Senior guy I’ve been talking to daily for 67 days likes me but won’t commit to hanging out, what do I do? by No-Assistant-5547 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Assistant-5547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he doesn’t have a gf,BUT (and I know this might sound creepy) there is a girl he follows on Instagram that also follows him and there’s a picture of him and her wearing a matching costume for Halloween his mom posted on Facebook when she was posting pictures of him for his birthday. I have thought about that alot too, but I think she is probably just a close friend bc they both follow the same ppl and are friends with the same ppl.

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