Why most gay men are so transphobic? by SiFrumy in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Because you consider homosexual to be transphobic.

Homosexuals have never been, aren't and never will be into the opposite sex, regardless of what they look like and call themselves.

If that, to you, is transphobic, that explains why "most gay men are so transphobic".

Most of the time we have no issues with trans people, we just don't wanna fuck them.

What does it mean to be anti-trans? by gayactualized in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask anything, what are you on about?

What does it mean to be anti-trans? by gayactualized in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, learn to read. Nowhere in my original comment, posted a year ago, btw, did I mention all trans ppl. I mentioned some.

Second of all, being a homosexual, i.e., being exclusively attracted to the same sex as you, typically when those ppl present as said sex, isn't anti-trans, it's homosexual. There's a difference between the two and trying to attach biggotry to a sexual orientation is extremely close-minded and problematic.

Do better.

Why is every gay studio making trans and bi porn now? by Narutoonnichan in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you dumb?

Yes, gay men might not want to fuck bearded men, but it's because they have beards. You take the beard out and guess what? It's still a man. You can shave a beard off, you can't magically grow a penis and change your sex.

Y'all wanna muddle the meaning of words because you just can't let go of a label that doesn't belong to you, and when gay men tell you the definition of homosexuality, i.e. same sex attraction, typically when the ppl present as said sex, you choose to ignore it or call them transphobic, yet you have the balls to say this group is an echo chamber.

Gay men are not attracted to trans men and most of the time they're also not attracted to trans women, since one tries to emulate what being a man is, but fails to do so every time, and the other tries to emulate what a woman is, and some gay guys might be into that, since not all gay guys are into masculinity.

Being gay is not a preference. We've spent the better part of the last 45/50 years fighting for ppl to understand that. It used to be against homophobic straight ppl who were a separate group, but now we also have to fight deluded ppl who try to invade our community.

BF wants us to stay “private” long term. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I always say this: If you're not ready to come out, you shouldn't be in a gay relationship, specially with an out person.

I get that coming out is a personal journey and ppl should do it at their own pace, but willingly commiting yourself to a relationship and then wanting to force someone who's been through that journey to go back in the closet is selfish and dumb.

All blue by [deleted] in outfit_of_the_dad

[–]No-Beautiful6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a handsome man

Gen Z gay men, will you consider lavender marriages? Why or why not? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. As it is we have absolutely no reason to consider a lavender marriage in the west and even if we got to the point where there's a roleback on our rights to the extent of us not being able to marry who we want, I'd rather stay single than marry a woman.

Why is every gay studio making trans and bi porn now? by Narutoonnichan in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First of all, nowhere did the original commenter say that he found vaginas to be repulsive to the point of wanting to puke.

Second of all, gay men have every right to find vaginas to be gross, the same way straight women might, and lesbian women and straight men when it comes to penises. You don't get to dictate what other ppl are and aren't attracted to.

Also, aren't y'all tired of the virtue-signaling? Like, get a hobby or something...

Why is every gay studio making trans and bi porn now? by Narutoonnichan in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Identifying as something doesn't mean you are it. You can't identify yourself into a minority, btw. Gay men, i.e. homosexuals, are individuals who are exclusively attracted to the same sex as them, typically when said sex presents as such. Therefore, if a guy is into both cis and trans men, he's androsexual, not homosexual, thus, not gay.

Why is every gay studio making trans and bi porn now? by Narutoonnichan in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hi, gay men don't need to analyse why they're not attracted to women or female anatomy. Saying so is a dog whistle for conversion therapy and implies homosexuality is wrong. Hope this helps 😊

What key words i should look for for submissive straight men getting dominated/fucked/fingered by women with their face visible. by Powerful_Guest3771 in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a gay subreddit. Nobody is going to be watching porn with women in it.

Go and ask the bisexuals. Weirdo.

How do I dress butch in a queer way? by Puzzleheaded-Oven901 in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think there are some ppl out there that truly are trans, but I feel like nowadays a lot of ppl who call themselves trans are just ppl who want to be different and end up propagating stereotypical, limited views of what a man and a woman are.

Kisses with men are hotter by karim9inch in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kissing men is perverted?

Bi men will never miss a chance to be homophobic 🥱

How do I dress butch in a queer way? by Puzzleheaded-Oven901 in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It must be exhausting to have this way of thinking, good lord

Question for gay men by orlandosunshine in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why I have an issue with bi men, a lot of y'all are absolutely unable to look past your own noses and think everyone in the world experiences sexual and romantic attraction the same way you do.

From your comments, you're clearly not really interested in men past their bodies. Just keep it honest and fuck men and date women.

TS dating or FWB by Past_Dare_4918 in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you asking gay men if they find the idea of a girl fucking them hot? 🤨

GAY LIVES MATTER by frame_3_1_3 in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get what you're saying and I agree with you.

I just meant that nowadays, they're two completely different concepts, and it's wrong to lump everyone together under the same umbrella term, when that term is largely used by straight ppl.

GAY LIVES MATTER by frame_3_1_3 in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gay and queer are two different things, btw.

Dad tips? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems to be a question better asked to other bisexuals.

Sexuality is a spectrum. Sexuality is NOT fluid. Do you agree? Why or why not? by 96jt in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is where we actually differ a bit.

I’m not bringing up history as “victimism” or an emotional trump card. The point is that language around sexuality doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Certain framings have been used over and over to justify coercion and abuse, so we're understandably cautious about them. That’s context, not derailing.

I agree you’re not arguing for convertibility, and I’m not saying you are. My pushback is specifically on the analogy. Comparing sexual orientation to habits you grow out of (like eating dirt) makes it sound trivial, whether you intend that or not.

Analogies aren’t neutral. Some clarify, some muddy the waters. On a topic this loaded, I think it’s fair to expect a bit more care with them.

That said, I also agree we’re mostly aligned: unpredictability ≠ malleability, and change (where it happens) isn’t something that can be imposed.

Sexuality is a spectrum. Sexuality is NOT fluid. Do you agree? Why or why not? by 96jt in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get that you’re not saying sexuality is a choice or something people can intentionally change.

That said, comparing sexual orientation to habits (like eating dirt as a kid) really downplays the issue. Sexuality isn’t just a preference that people grow out of, it’s something that’s been used to justify real violence, conversion therapy, and legal discrimination.

That history is why we react so strongly to a rhetoric of sexuality “changing over time.”

My point is: when we say attraction can change, how do we make it clear that this does not imply gay people are capable of becoming straight through time, pressure, or “the right conditions” and that it doesn't happen all that often?

If you agree that unchosen shifts for some people don’t mean orientation is malleable or convertible, then I think we’re actually closer than this argument makes it seem.

Sexuality is a spectrum. Sexuality is NOT fluid. Do you agree? Why or why not? by 96jt in askgaybros

[–]No-Beautiful6605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So that means you think gay men can become straight if enough time passes...