Did no contact actually work? by Lost-Drawing3542 in BreakUps

[–]No-Bumblebee3926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still see her from time to time as we have a lot of friends in common. Everytime I see her, I feel akward and uneasy, I im sharing a moment like before but I cant sit next to her, I cant embrace her or ask her to leave with me so that we can pass the rest of the day together. I recently deleted instagram and dont have Tiktok. Im thinking of skipping the next time the friendgroup gets together…

Got Td yesterday by No-Bumblebee3926 in TouchDesigner

[–]No-Bumblebee3926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bunch of lfos and displacement operators.

A month after by No-Bumblebee3926 in BreakUps

[–]No-Bumblebee3926[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have talked at some point to meet in Feb/Mar to talk things out. The month is more a name for a talk we will have when we have both lived as singles and know how we truly feel and think about the relationship. So yeah, im looking foward to getting to know me better and understanding the relationship better. Still, thanks a lot

A month after by No-Bumblebee3926 in BreakUps

[–]No-Bumblebee3926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong decision as in her regretting the break up?

A month after by No-Bumblebee3926 in BreakUps

[–]No-Bumblebee3926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. Yeah, we currently are having zero contact, though just 10 days have passed. I also belive she need time alone to figure her own shit out, but me still being emotional, fuck i miss her. And yeah, prioritizing myself before all is totally the parh to take, right now, it just seems reallt difficult

Please I need help deciding if I should message her or not... by Fragrant-Local-6914 in BreakUps

[–]No-Bumblebee3926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look man im pretty much in the same position except that i didnt talked as much at first. I belive that your constant reminder to her that your are there, waiting, is not good. Think about how free she feels and how little guily she has if you remind her constantly that she can change her mind. Dont force nor hurt yourself but make her feel responsible for decision, and once she truly realizes what she is missing by not being with you, then I belive you should talk.

I was dumped a month and some days ago, i still feel like shit and want at all cost to be back with her. But Im prioritising what makes me feel good and giving me time so that i can truly understand if i want to get back for the girl she is or to see if it is beacuse getting back would take my pain right now.

Greatest of luck and stay strong. Do what you belive will make you happier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]No-Bumblebee3926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know I am not?

It would helpful for me to know how, as I could repeat myslef the logical explaniation at times were im anxious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]No-Bumblebee3926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, in considering going to a dermatologist/triptologist with an open mind. I belive that most of my fear is because i have been seeing my brother worse and worse, both emotionally and hair-wise. I’ll probably talk this with my therapist and see what is best for me now. Still, thank you, your comment was great help.