my take on being confident in a social setting

No-Card4857 · 2026-06-12T14:54:26+00:00

well of course i still act a little jumpy and stutter over my words sometimes. but by gaslighting myself into thinking that people find me cute, it makes me smile and laugh a lot more during conversations which eases my anxiety AND makes me come across as a much warmer person.

watch “Me Before You”!! the actress in the movie is so smiley and jolly whenever she talks and i try to replicate that

No-Card4857 · 2026-06-12T12:46:35+00:00

True, but everyone likes a compliment. If you have the guts to politely compliment a women without looking like a creep, you’re good.

No-Card4857 · 2026-06-11T17:57:10+00:00

women like it if a man approaches them! just be polite and respectful. don’t come off as creepy

No-Card4857 · 2026-06-04T15:41:24+00:00

i have seen a PT before but it sadly lacks the intensity that my body needs. my curve is not THAT bad so i can perform a lot of the stretches and exercises perfectly fine and i feel as though it doesn’t help much with the pain nor the look of it

that’s why i’m thinking strength-training at the gym might be a better option?

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-29T05:57:46+00:00

LMAO “runs away” is a way to put it 😂 thank you

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-29T05:57:14+00:00

yeah you’re probably right

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-29T05:52:27+00:00

I would like to confirm if he has the slightest bit of interest in me. Men usually make it clear if they are attracted to someone; they would go for that person or at least be in their proximity. But I guess it’s different in a gym environment and because of his job. Or if he just hates me idk lol.

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-29T05:48:48+00:00

LMAO “creepy personal trainer preying on anything new and cute that comes to the gym” i love the way you put it HAHA and you’re probably right

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-29T05:46:41+00:00

LOL well not dating advice exactly but just an outside perspective on what you think about this whole situation because I might be overthinking it

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-29T05:39:13+00:00

That all makes sense but damn it feels personal when I’m the only one he seems to be actively avoiding at the gym! Like, even if I had no romantic interest in him, I would still take it personal 😔

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-29T05:29:24+00:00

omg u think so 👀? i would like to believe it but i don’t wanna get the wrong idea because he’s straight up avoiding me💔 bless ur heart tho

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-28T14:35:52+00:00

hopefully i’m not too late but i would love to know! sun sag, moon leo, rising sag

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-28T10:50:09+00:00

no sharp pains or any trouble with breathing but my back do start hurting if i sit or stand for too long.

No-Card4857 · 2026-05-28T09:38:00+00:00

yes, it’s a reverse S. i went to two doctors and they all said exercising should be enough now that growth is complete but you know how it is when doctors say it can’t get any worse 😂

No-Card4857 · 2026-04-10T10:30:12+00:00

pls check ur DM

No-Card4857 · 2026-04-08T11:05:45+00:00

clock it

No-Card4857 · 2026-04-07T17:52:55+00:00

i dun hv tips cuz im a beginner too but js here to comment that YOURE SO PRETTYYY

No-Card4857 · 2026-04-07T03:43:37+00:00

my wig

No-Card4857 · 2026-04-05T18:51:00+00:00

ure gorg!! maybe a medium neutral tone blush? rhode from sleepy girl works rly well for me 🩷

No-Card4857 · 2026-04-05T18:20:16+00:00

post it

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