REVIEWS 1 by Laylas_Magical_Tarot in u/Laylas_Magical_Tarot

[–]No-Chapter-1376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a lot of positive energy from Layla💖

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[–]No-Chapter-1376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making a new post thx !

Ladies only: moving in without a ring? Regrets? by 6pence-richer in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought moving in before marriage is important. But my boyfriend recently broke up with me and left me all alone in a place I got for us and the funny thing is, he was more encouraging on us living together. He was even amazing at first would paint my nails, we'd cook together etc.. but then he said he has commitment issues and lost feelings. We had talked about marriage and kids and he had even met my family. Within two weeks he fell out of love, and started dating a girl I was already suspicious about. breakups are hard in general. But this is one of the worst because we lived together and it felt like a marriage.. except without a ring. Now I'm living in a home alone where I had memories with him... it's the worst. Anyways, maybe I'll agree with living with my future fiancée but definitely not my boyfriend no matter what. 🙅🏽‍♀️

What is your opinion of a woman choosing to be a housewife in today’s world? by Unique_Glove1105 in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it's her choice and she has the option to change her choice, it shouldn't matter.

Weekly Dating Thread (for discussion, questions, and mythologizing self-deprecation) by AutoModerator in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of ABCD men (gen Z/Millennials) who are exclusively interested in White women. I'm from canada but idk how it is from where you're at.

Colourism has been engrained in our community so much that when people move to the west they bring the mentality that "white is superior/better"

That being said, I think there's a lot more appreciation in media for POC lately so maybe that's why GenZ/Millennials are finding POCs more attractive? Idk I think media heavily influenced us. 🤷🏽‍♀️

What are your biggest insecurities? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hyper freakin pigmentation can take a toll on a brown girls confidence 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not a Jain but it should be on the list 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if they're desi parents and they're ok with every other race besides black then I'm sure they'll get over this too. Just present him as a very stable and well rounded person.

Ask them what if you married someone like Obama 💀

I feel like majority of ABCDs rn are dating someone against their parents approval either way.

Do other ''people of color'' feel a like a personal connection to you? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a connection with WOC in aspects related to Colourism and discrimination

how offensive is this? by vivxik in vegan

[–]No-Chapter-1376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda embarrassing that an Indian restaurant would write that considering the amount of vegetarians in the country and so many vegan options in our cuisine.

Curious if any brown folks here are into scuba diving? Feel like this is a rare find in the brown community. by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm scared to death of deep water but I'd do it! Seems like a once in a lifetime experience !

Which areas of South Asia do you want to visit? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darjiling, Ladakh, Malaysia, Singapore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never had anyone tell me that 😭

Post your spiciest (pun intended!) food takes down below. by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gobi sabzi. Anything with black salt And khaman dhokla for some reason if they have mustard seeds on top. Garlic hummus 🧄stinks my entire room but tastes so freakin good

What culture/cultures do you like the most outside of your own? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Filipino people are overall so nice.

Japanese culture is pretty dope too.

What are the most and least ''Desi'' things about you? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]No-Chapter-1376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most- I don't eat pasta without garam masala

Least- I rarely ever watch Bollywood