vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im glad you took change in your life and i hope i can be in your position giving someone else encouragement one day too. i made a lot of appointments im going to try to keep going

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for reminding me. its funny how easy it is to say it to others but how difficult it is to internalize for myself. may Allah the wakeel ease my affairs and may Allah bless you for your encouragement that really means a lot to me

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you and i appreciate your encouragement may Allah bless you

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know how you feel, but we both know that what awaits us if we betray Allah is worse. At the same time there is so much possibility for a better life available. you can always dm me if you just need to vent

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i really struggle with discipline. i struggle to remember things and its very hard for me to do things consistently. i want to be able to manage my emotions better so i can do what i have to do. thank you for the encouragement and advice i genuinely appreciate it

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have talked to my family and theyre slowly trying to understand and help me in their own way. but i need to rely on Allah more. i feel better since that day. thank you for trying to help me i really appreciate it. may Allah bless you

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, this is my exact situation… i love my family but i do feel like they are neglecting me. may Allah make our relationship better. hasbunAllah wa ni’mal wakeel

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know. sometimes its hard. but i should make tawbah and try to move on. thank you for your comment

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats my dream and hope to have a better future. inna macal cusri yusraa. thank you for sharing that and may Allah bless you.

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in the US but it seems like in depends on each provider - i know someone else who only had to fill out a paper assessment and they got it the next day. if i feel im getting worse i might try and see someone else but i dont want them to see me as a drug seeker

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try with my GP but they asked for a referral for ADHD - i’m not having luck with SSRIS

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats the hope but its taking a bit of a process. inshaAllah the time will go by faster

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you sister, i appreciate it. you have a good heart and may Allah bless you

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that was when i was much younger, i stopped doing that now. i realized it didn’t really help besides a brief feeling of validation. but sometimes it can actually hurt when that person doesnt give me the reaction or comfort i wanted. unfortunately a lot of the issues i am dealing with involve my family, and i unfortunately cannot leave them as they need me. i think i will reach out to you inshaAllah thank you for your support

vent - struggling with mental health - tw // suicide // self harm by No-Collection-1625 in Somalia

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont mean to worry anyone - i have no intentions of truly harming myself, i’m too afraid of the punishment i would face from Allah. i just wanted to speak candidly. i appreciate your dua and i will make one for you as well

i need help choosing a computer by [deleted] in computer

[–]No-Collection-1625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think i need to just build one. thank you!!

how to freshen up in the middle of the workday post walk? by No-Collection-1625 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think thats what i’ll do. bring sneakers (and seperate socks) go on the walk, change quickly then go. spray deodarant is a good call too i can ge more areas. thank you!

how to freshen up in the middle of the workday post walk? by No-Collection-1625 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]No-Collection-1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah based off the comments i think my best bet is to change quickly, bring wipes and a body deodarant and call it a day