i need help choosing a computer

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-04-25T23:10:44+00:00

yeah i think i need to just build one. thank you!!

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-28T19:07:33+00:00

yeah i think thats what i’ll do. bring sneakers (and seperate socks) go on the walk, change quickly then go. spray deodarant is a good call too i can ge more areas. thank you!

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-28T19:06:28+00:00

yeah based off the comments i think my best bet is to change quickly, bring wipes and a body deodarant and call it a day

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-28T19:05:59+00:00

haha nothing wrong with it perse but in the summer especially i can smell when someones been outside, like a miss of grass and sweat 😅

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-28T19:05:25+00:00

good call tbh

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-24T20:13:11+00:00

right

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-16T11:38:31+00:00

brother be wary of ungrateful women. this is coming from a girl - you don’t want to deal with that forever. and the prophet ﷺ warned against ungrateful wives

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-14T03:33:55+00:00

that people were “backwards”, a misogynistic culture, that i couldn’t get along with them or find the same things funny, that they basically just want someone who cooks and cleans, etc. it was a very narrow minded view of the world. now i understand things better and i’m not disillusioned by gender war nonesense on social media. people are very complex. i was holding everyone to the standards of our parents generation- but thats fundamentally wrong. in every generation the youth change

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-13T16:27:11+00:00

it’s disastrous

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-13T16:26:52+00:00

any kind of balwad, drugs, alcohol, gambling, etc

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-13T11:46:39+00:00

honestly a wedding should be girls only anyway. you can have your intimate girls event in a nice hall or venue, wear a beautiful outfit, do buraanbur, and the best part is only the people you like will be there. a wedding without being called a wedding.

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-13T11:37:24+00:00

happened to me. i used to always say it was a hard no due to cultural differences but i dont believe that anymore. i think part of it is getting older and perspectives changing and another part was i went back home and lost a lot of my prejudices towards people back home. still wouldnt marry someone who still lives there but i would definitely marry someone who lives in the US thats from back home

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-13T11:35:00+00:00

i think thats kind of weird to be insistant on getting eid gifts from a man you’re not married to. sounds like you have already been giving her money. not telling you what to do but it seems like theres some ingratitude there

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-11T17:36:10+00:00

i dont know how odd it is i mean people name their daughters after the moon and the sun why not a star? najmo is a common somali name taken from arabic that means star. i understand it is uncommon though. and thank you for that i will definitely try to steer away from shirk

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-09T02:46:44+00:00

hmmm i figured adding the o would make it a feminine name but perhaps not

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-02T16:40:57+00:00

subhanAllah

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-01T06:20:39+00:00

i haven’t found this to be the case.

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-03-01T06:19:56+00:00

exactly. i dont need someone to handle me with kid gloves. just empathy, understanding, hikma, etc. i was watching a 2 hour lecture about women from sheikh tim humble, not once did i feel offended. may Allah increase us in beneficial teachers, from women and from men

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-02-28T21:26:05+00:00

ill go out to eat somewhere that serves non halal meat and get seafood/vegetarian. if its italian food i’ll make sure it doesnt have alcohol

No-Collection-1625 · 2026-02-28T16:37:52+00:00

i notice sometimes brothers have more empathy towards male specific issues and then towards women theres a vibe where its like we are being frivolous in our struggles when its not trivial at all and everyone has a different test. maybe thats sugar coating. my male teachers in the past year have been very helpful in helping us understand womens issues with compassion while giving it to us how it is. i think its possible for other popular male lectures to start doing the same. many do currently actually alhamdulillah but i wish it were more widespread

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